In this episode, spiritual advisor and mentor Alea Lovely guides us through the journey of manifesting a life grounded in spiritual truth. Alea shares her wisdom on making heart-centered decisions, trusting inner guidance, and breaking through fear-based patterns to embrace our soul’s highest potential. We discuss her unique approach to aligning outer success with inner truth, connecting with spirit guides, and living authentically. Tune in for an inspiring conversation designed to empower anyone seeking to deepen their intuition and fulfill their true purpose.
Show Notes
00:00:49.310 --> 00:01:07.620 elizabeth tripp: Good evening, everyone. I am so excited to be here. This is Elizabeth Tripp. Hi, there, my lovely guest, I'm just getting into my intro for you. It is so exciting that you're here, Aaliyah. I want to just start off.
00:01:07.690 --> 00:01:11.329 elizabeth tripp: Thank you so much. The listeners who are tuning in today.
00:01:11.370 --> 00:01:25.060 elizabeth tripp: We are so excited to have you here on, nourish the soul, talk, radio, show, and podcast, where this is, your your time to really sit, back, relax, and go on a journey of self discovery.
00:01:25.190 --> 00:01:33.989 elizabeth tripp: and to remember that as you go on this journey, to come into presence and awareness with your sacred body.
00:01:34.180 --> 00:01:58.839 elizabeth tripp: this temple, because, as our guest shares in my perspective our temple, our awareness of it, it unlocks so much wisdom. The wisdom within us is here. When we're aware of it. So let's welcome. Let's get started right away with this exciting talk show. We've got aaliyah lovely, and let me tell you.
00:01:58.950 --> 00:02:03.829 elizabeth tripp: she is a spiritual and metaphysical advisor.
00:02:04.270 --> 00:02:10.420 elizabeth tripp: Just that name sounds so powerful. She's also a philosopher, and I thought that was so cool when she was
00:02:10.479 --> 00:02:15.400 elizabeth tripp: when I was reading actually through her website how that really stuck out for me.
00:02:15.440 --> 00:02:22.060 elizabeth tripp: She's known for her deep insights and manifestation and her relatable approach. This is
00:02:22.270 --> 00:02:35.039 elizabeth tripp: just so important right. Now, it's very grounded and rooted in reality approach to spirituality. He also has a widely successful podcast called spiritual Shit
00:02:35.360 --> 00:02:47.400 elizabeth tripp: and it's just amazing how this podcast has exploded. She's really captivated thousands of listeners with her profound wisdom and engaging storyteller.
00:02:47.650 --> 00:02:59.350 elizabeth tripp: He's interviewed actually over a hundred experts. So we're talking to a real expert herself. So I myself am just so excited to be in the presence of someone who knows how to interview.
00:02:59.490 --> 00:03:04.150 elizabeth tripp: and she provides her audience with incredible, relatable.
00:03:04.660 --> 00:03:20.880 elizabeth tripp: really amazing feedback, just to help them tap into and get in touch with the wisdom within them, and also manifest meaningfully, we're going to talk about an upcoming project she's revealing, and I'm so excited to get this conversation started.
00:03:21.010 --> 00:03:24.650 elizabeth tripp: Thank you, Aaliyah, welcome, welcome! How are you.
00:03:24.650 --> 00:03:27.779 Alea Lovely: Thank you so much for having me. It's good to see you again.
00:03:28.000 --> 00:03:35.059 elizabeth tripp: I know. I I was just thinking, you know, we got connected in 2020, and I remember you were like.
00:03:35.220 --> 00:03:36.840 elizabeth tripp: Give me a second
00:03:37.287 --> 00:03:41.442 elizabeth tripp: hold on one second. You were like, give me a second
00:03:41.990 --> 00:03:47.350 elizabeth tripp: I'm in my back room, just starting my podcast. And
00:03:47.430 --> 00:03:59.849 elizabeth tripp: I need to get set up. And I was like, Okay, no problem. And it was just such a cool interview that we had back in 2020. And then your whole podcast just exploded right?
00:04:00.181 --> 00:04:02.170 Alea Lovely: Yeah, it did. Thank you. Yes.
00:04:02.555 --> 00:04:08.049 Alea Lovely: and also thank you for the interview. I feel so honored like, that's really beautiful. I appreciate that.
00:04:08.050 --> 00:04:12.959 elizabeth tripp: You're so welcome. So I want to really start with. You know.
00:04:13.200 --> 00:04:17.590 elizabeth tripp: I kind of reviewed your website, got in touch with your energy.
00:04:17.750 --> 00:04:23.300 elizabeth tripp: You're obviously a very, very powerful channeler and intuitive.
00:04:23.480 --> 00:04:29.700 elizabeth tripp: And before we get deep diving into your, you know, upcoming project and
00:04:29.710 --> 00:04:35.700 elizabeth tripp: new book release, I'm just gonna drop that. I think the audience would really want to know
00:04:35.790 --> 00:04:36.920 elizabeth tripp: what
00:04:37.290 --> 00:04:44.509 elizabeth tripp: kind of led you to this path of being such a strong figure and light for other people, such a bearer of hope.
00:04:44.650 --> 00:04:52.909 elizabeth tripp: such an advisor for other people's trepidations! How did you get here? How did you become this spiritual advisor and channel.
00:04:53.350 --> 00:04:57.100 Alea Lovely: Well, 1st of all, thank you so much. I
00:04:57.180 --> 00:05:03.899 Alea Lovely: think that in my early childhood I grew up very religious, and in religious context.
00:05:04.050 --> 00:05:06.880 Alea Lovely: it was very hard to hear my own voice
00:05:07.150 --> 00:05:21.199 Alea Lovely: often being told and taught. This is how you're supposed to think this is the right way to do something, and often, having, like guilt, be the background of everything. I was thinking. You know, it's a very guilty child, and
00:05:21.390 --> 00:05:43.969 Alea Lovely: I was very curious as well, I had a lot of things to say and to ask. I still do, and often would see patterns in the dogmatic behaviors that were going on and thinking like something doesn't add up here. Something doesn't feel right to me. And there was no space for that. There was no space for those questions. I remember being told by my Sunday school teacher I don't have enough faith.
00:05:44.290 --> 00:05:58.720 Alea Lovely: and that if I continued to ask questions that I wouldn't be welcome to continue to join the youth group that I was in, and I just thought like, if if God made me this inquisitive person, then you should be cool with my questions.
00:05:59.070 --> 00:06:27.209 Alea Lovely: and since there was no space for that, I just often felt like a little bit lost, like I just didn't have enough space to be who I was, and what I noticed in that is, that there was a lot of disempowerment, of often defaulting to other people and other people's wisdom, and me just having a thankfully, a really strong intuition from the jump, but often denying myself that intuition, denying what my intuition was telling me, and then often seeing later. Man, I was right, you know.
00:06:27.210 --> 00:06:28.040 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:06:28.040 --> 00:06:35.940 Alea Lovely: Those moments of having validation or affirmation later in life, led me to this kind of breaking away of the Church, and
00:06:35.990 --> 00:06:41.120 Alea Lovely: me feeling comfortable enough as an adult to step away from some of those things, and
00:06:43.550 --> 00:06:50.410 Alea Lovely: few years of being an atheist where I just didn't believe in anything. And I was like, I kind of don't feel like this, is it, either? Like.
00:06:51.050 --> 00:07:01.810 Alea Lovely: One end of the spectrum where it was like, I know everything, and this is what's going to happen after you die into then transferring into like. I think I'm just as arrogant to say that there's nothing.
00:07:02.180 --> 00:07:02.880 elizabeth tripp: So.
00:07:02.880 --> 00:07:13.460 Alea Lovely: Had to find like a suite in between. In the meanwhile I was having a lot of spiritual experiences from childhood and on, with spirits and people standing over my bed very 6th sense kind of stuff.
00:07:13.530 --> 00:07:38.049 Alea Lovely: and then finding out that my father and my grandmother also have very similar gifts. And so it being kind of the way that it was talked about, was always like, Oh, no, no, this is demons trying to trick you, or you know, etc. But I was like. But grandma came through and gave me this really amazing message about like her passing, and so on. So probably around 2527 around there. I really started to really hunker down into my awakening and
00:07:38.050 --> 00:07:51.379 Alea Lovely: knowing wealth. And it's put me on this path. I'm 40 now, but put down this path of saying like I don't. I don't really love the way that, spiritually speaking, we take people's power away from them
00:07:51.420 --> 00:07:51.920 Alea Lovely: like.
00:07:51.920 --> 00:07:52.469 elizabeth tripp: I think we are.
00:07:52.470 --> 00:08:07.929 Alea Lovely: All have intuition as a birthright, and I think that we all know what's best for us deep down inside, when we pull off the voices and the expectations and the inauthentic desires, and what society says, and we're able to get to the crux of like who we were when we came into this world.
00:08:08.270 --> 00:08:09.340 elizabeth tripp: Or the trauma.
00:08:09.340 --> 00:08:25.669 Alea Lovely: And I want to give that back to people like I love seeing the light turn on when people with my coaching clients, or when people are reading my book, or whatever, and going oh, yes, and them getting that snippet of their power back like I love that.
00:08:26.650 --> 00:08:46.060 Alea Lovely: It's guided. All of my work, like everything that I do is always, you know, asking questions about the systems that we are in. You know I'm obviously my person of color, and seeing how I was very excluded from a lot of my experiences in the spiritual world, me going that doesn't also feel right either, you know. So I've been kind of just tearing down Legos everywhere.
00:08:46.060 --> 00:08:46.984 elizabeth tripp: So
00:08:47.910 --> 00:08:52.390 Alea Lovely: But in hopes to create something foundationally. That's more inclusive, something that's better for
00:08:52.850 --> 00:08:53.970 Alea Lovely: the people
00:08:54.110 --> 00:09:06.469 Alea Lovely: who do feel left out or marginalized, who do feel like, you know, manifestation doesn't work for me. And why is that? We know why that is being able to explain to them and give them answers, and
00:09:06.670 --> 00:09:11.779 Alea Lovely: just little nuggets that will help themselves discover themselves authentically.
00:09:12.140 --> 00:09:37.129 elizabeth tripp: Yeah, well, you know what a relatable story, because I think all of us can agree that we grew up with some form or fashion of a religious influence right where we were told. You know, if we're not being good, quote unquote the way that our preacher or the the pastor of this particular type of organized religion is saying, we should. Then we're actually bad.
00:09:37.150 --> 00:09:38.340 elizabeth tripp: And then.
00:09:38.450 --> 00:09:45.529 elizabeth tripp: similar to me, you actually have an overlap in in. In my own experience of
00:09:45.730 --> 00:10:03.489 elizabeth tripp: in ghosts we could call them, or spiritual entities or beings, and on top of that, probably not having, maybe the, you know, support within our family dynamics. To say, this is actually a gift, and it's normal. But being inundated with more of that kind of
00:10:04.080 --> 00:10:11.369 elizabeth tripp: framework, or we call like blueprint of. There's something wrong or bad or not enough about me.
00:10:11.973 --> 00:10:17.010 elizabeth tripp: and I love how that's been your driving force. So
00:10:17.020 --> 00:10:19.169 elizabeth tripp: how cool is that? Because
00:10:19.210 --> 00:10:26.829 elizabeth tripp: you do so much on really empowering people? And do you work just with women? Or is it men too.
00:10:27.060 --> 00:10:31.020 Alea Lovely: Men, too. Yeah, okay, it's mostly women that's who's naturally drawn to me.
00:10:31.180 --> 00:10:41.010 elizabeth tripp: To you. Yeah, around personal wisdom and really tapping into that intuition. And I know from personal experiences you just shared that you felt like you're
00:10:41.230 --> 00:10:47.109 elizabeth tripp: own ability to listen to your intuition was denied. So I wanted to know. You know.
00:10:47.230 --> 00:10:53.610 elizabeth tripp: What do you say to people who are struggling to listen to that inner voice.
00:10:53.680 --> 00:11:02.090 elizabeth tripp: and they feel disconnected to their intuition, like, what's your guidance on that? Because I think a lot of people struggle with that right now.
00:11:02.530 --> 00:11:06.399 Alea Lovely: Yeah. So a lot of times when we're thinking about
00:11:06.420 --> 00:11:12.159 Alea Lovely: you know what we want in our life and why we can't have it in the book. I talk about the anti-belief.
00:11:12.610 --> 00:11:13.290 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:11:13.290 --> 00:11:27.209 Alea Lovely: The way of us being able to pursue our dreams or manifest what it is that we want. There's some narrative that has been there for quite some time, and what I often find in people is there is an age where I've always been like that started.
00:11:27.410 --> 00:11:28.050 Alea Lovely: and.
00:11:28.050 --> 00:11:28.419 elizabeth tripp: And then.
00:11:28.420 --> 00:11:39.110 Alea Lovely: Kind of like tracking back to those areas or arenas where, like we at a former childhood self, teenager self, or something gripped onto a narrative.
00:11:40.010 --> 00:11:59.209 Alea Lovely: Okay, this is how I stay safe in the world. There's not space in my home for me to be emotional. So I quiet my voice. There's not a safe space for me to express myself or a parent that's emotionally neglectful. So you just learn how to do everything yourself, and you've told yourself that I have to do everything myself. I can't ask for help or.
00:11:59.210 --> 00:11:59.620 elizabeth tripp: M.
00:11:59.620 --> 00:12:10.919 Alea Lovely: Have a traumatic experience, you know, like myself, I've been essayed, and me telling myself that my body is problematic, and so I don't want to be an attractive body, because that means I'll be unsafe.
00:12:11.390 --> 00:12:12.290 elizabeth tripp: Different things.
00:12:12.290 --> 00:12:20.389 Alea Lovely: Like that, where we kind of anchor into a particular narrative that keeps us from seeing our own magic seeing our own like.
00:12:20.470 --> 00:12:26.110 Alea Lovely: This is what I want to do with my life. A lot of times those narratives come from safety programming.
00:12:26.110 --> 00:12:26.620 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:12:26.620 --> 00:12:30.989 Alea Lovely: To keep ourselves safe, and often because we're trying to keep ourselves safe.
00:12:31.020 --> 00:12:35.610 Alea Lovely: like it gets in the way of us being able to see what what our authentic desire actually is.
00:12:35.980 --> 00:12:44.579 elizabeth tripp: Hmm! Really, beautifully said. And you know, just giving you a heads up, we're gonna head into a quick break. But before we do that
00:12:44.730 --> 00:13:11.879 elizabeth tripp: we're going to introduce actually the title of your book, which is meaningful manifestation. And you really express there how in that, you know, you talk about these narratives that people come up with that actually separate them from their truth, and and really being able to kind of listen to themselves. So how cool to prime us and prep for our next segment for us to really hear a little bit more about this
00:13:11.880 --> 00:13:15.639 elizabeth tripp: exciting book launch. Congratulations, by the way.
00:13:15.640 --> 00:13:16.160 Alea Lovely: Thank you so much.
00:13:17.290 --> 00:13:23.000 elizabeth tripp: So we're gonna actually take a quick break, and when we get back we'll dive back in.
00:15:25.090 --> 00:15:27.539 elizabeth tripp: All right. Welcome back
00:15:41.160 --> 00:15:48.567 elizabeth tripp: alright and welcome back. I'm just so excited I forgot my intro music had to play.
00:15:49.160 --> 00:15:51.969 elizabeth tripp: I love it when you just go live, and things just
00:15:52.350 --> 00:15:54.240 elizabeth tripp: happen. It's like the huge.
00:15:54.350 --> 00:15:57.769 elizabeth tripp: The universe is like, here we go.
00:15:58.210 --> 00:16:11.400 elizabeth tripp: So I'm here talking to Aaliyah. Lovely. She is an amazing woman, a very empowered woman, who, by the way, has a top ranked podcast called Spiritual shit.
00:16:11.430 --> 00:16:12.490 elizabeth tripp: And
00:16:12.530 --> 00:16:21.969 elizabeth tripp: let me tell you this this woman, she is able to really hold such a powerful conversation. She's had interviews with thought leaders like
00:16:22.120 --> 00:16:29.669 elizabeth tripp: Matt Khan, Mel Robbins, and Thelma. I mean congratulations. That's amazing.
00:16:29.670 --> 00:16:31.110 Alea Lovely: Thank you.
00:16:31.710 --> 00:16:35.480 elizabeth tripp: And this all just happened over the last like 4 years. Right.
00:16:35.480 --> 00:16:41.269 Alea Lovely: Yeah, yeah, we've grown a lot. I'm really proud of the work that we've done so far, and looking forward to
00:16:41.360 --> 00:16:43.780 Alea Lovely: how that's going to shape up soon.
00:16:43.780 --> 00:17:01.280 elizabeth tripp: Yeah. Well, Aaliyah, tell us about meaningful manifestations we were just talking about. You know, how do we help people who are kind of in this space right now who they want to, you know, trust in something bigger. They want to realize that they have a wisdom within them.
00:17:01.380 --> 00:17:18.809 elizabeth tripp: but they don't even really feel like it's possible, because they're doubting their own truth, their own inner self. So tell us how meaningful manifestation can help them, or how even this journey began to write this book too. So if you can.
00:17:18.810 --> 00:17:19.310 Alea Lovely: Miserable.
00:17:19.310 --> 00:17:21.089 elizabeth tripp: These questions in this segment.
00:17:21.470 --> 00:17:28.949 Alea Lovely: So it kicked off with the passing of my aunt. It was extremely sudden, and
00:17:28.970 --> 00:17:33.580 Alea Lovely: when she passed, you know she's 50 something years old, and
00:17:33.730 --> 00:17:36.530 Alea Lovely: the thought I couldn't shake was, did she have a good life.
00:17:37.010 --> 00:17:38.040 elizabeth tripp: And.
00:17:38.040 --> 00:17:48.380 Alea Lovely: What? What did that mean to her? And I couldn't kick it. I just kept ruminating of like, what does it mean to live a good life, and I've always been someone really interested in spiritual things and
00:17:48.777 --> 00:18:00.479 Alea Lovely: you know, near death experiences. And you know whatever when people see the other side. And since I do mediumship work, it's very important to me. And thinking of the things that people say when they come through.
00:18:00.690 --> 00:18:12.640 Alea Lovely: often wanting to connect with loved ones, mend relationships and recognizing that love is kind of the center of why we're here. And what's most important to us when we pass.
00:18:12.680 --> 00:18:20.730 Alea Lovely: So I started looking at these studies of end of life end of life studies where people are like, you know this. I regret not being my most authentic self.
00:18:20.740 --> 00:18:24.689 Alea Lovely: I regret not, you know, saying that thing to that person that I loved, or
00:18:25.140 --> 00:18:33.339 Alea Lovely: painting career, or whatever the thing was, things that were really like non-negotiables for their soul. But they didn't feel like they could do, because.
00:18:33.500 --> 00:18:41.660 Alea Lovely: you know, like their their family wanted them to be a doctor, or they had a husband that didn't approve of them working outside of the home, or whatever the thing was right. And
00:18:41.850 --> 00:18:48.549 Alea Lovely: I thought, Oh, well, okay, let me map out what that looks like. If I were to get to the end of my life. I don't want to have the best life.
00:18:48.600 --> 00:18:56.680 Alea Lovely: I mean. That would be fantastic, but you know, like life be life. And so I was like, what would it mean for me to have a good life like if I were to.
00:18:56.680 --> 00:18:57.240 elizabeth tripp: And ask.
00:18:57.240 --> 00:19:02.649 Alea Lovely: Away tomorrow. Would I feel satisfied? Would I feel seated in the life that I had.
00:19:03.020 --> 00:19:03.469 elizabeth tripp: For me.
00:19:03.470 --> 00:19:22.520 Alea Lovely: Those turned out being very simple things, like having a love, romantic partner, that you know, time with my family, financial security, not even like financial abundance, just security, being able to be comfortable, having passions achieved, being able to travel and have my inspirations stated
00:19:22.740 --> 00:19:27.659 Alea Lovely: things that feel very straightforward and basic. And I was like, Okay, so I don't need like
00:19:27.760 --> 00:19:34.619 Alea Lovely: a million followers. I don't need to have. Necessarily, I would love it. A New York Times bestselling book, you know, like.
00:19:34.620 --> 00:19:35.020 elizabeth tripp: Link.
00:19:35.020 --> 00:19:49.719 Alea Lovely: That I put on this list that I say, this is what's going to make me happy, only to find out that it doesn't actually make you happy. And unfortunately, in our society, especially with catapulism, we are so bent on the next thing like, what do we need to do next?
00:19:49.720 --> 00:19:50.060 elizabeth tripp: Next.
00:19:50.150 --> 00:19:57.320 Alea Lovely: Okay, I got this thing. Now, what are you doing next? I used to live in New York, and that that would always be the question of like, so what are you working on next?
00:19:57.330 --> 00:20:04.880 Alea Lovely: And it's like, I just finished something really big like, can we just ruminate on that a little bit 1st before I feel the pressure that I need to get up and.
00:20:04.880 --> 00:20:05.330 elizabeth tripp: Something.
00:20:05.330 --> 00:20:06.170 Alea Lovely: Else.
00:20:06.610 --> 00:20:16.380 Alea Lovely: and that feeling very challenging to me because I was like, I don't feel fulfilled in constantly blooming like flowers. Don't bloom year round. Why must I
00:20:16.580 --> 00:20:17.140 Alea Lovely: so.
00:20:17.140 --> 00:20:17.690 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:20:17.690 --> 00:20:29.580 Alea Lovely: I sat down, and I was like, All right, I need these 5 things to have a good life, and from there I actually channeled it. I channeled the Imagine method. I sat down on a road trip, and it was just starting to like, I get this little bubbly feeling when I'm
00:20:32.376 --> 00:20:45.870 Alea Lovely: and I channeled the imagine method, which is I that's which is inception. Where are you starting from? Your starting place is going to be different than so. And so starting place. If you are in New York and I'm in Kansas City, and we're both trying to get to La. I'm going to get there first, st
00:20:46.050 --> 00:21:12.069 Alea Lovely: and are you going to be halfway through middle of America going like, why did she get there before me? And it's like, Well, I had the privilege of being closer to La. And there are a lot of things that we see in our life that are exactly like that where it's like, okay, you have a different skin color. So you are going to get these advantages that I might not get in this country or you make more money, or you're you don't make more money, or you live in a war torn country, whatever the thing is. And it wouldn't be because you didn't weren't positive enough. You know.
00:21:12.570 --> 00:21:17.930 Alea Lovely: And when we think about manifestation, oftentimes people are talking about our thought life, which is true, like.
00:21:17.930 --> 00:21:18.369 elizabeth tripp: Being able to.
00:21:18.370 --> 00:21:30.549 Alea Lovely: Be positive and have perspective, and perception helps you see better what is fit for your life. What's going to be a better fit for your life, however like it's not the only thing.
00:21:32.200 --> 00:21:34.679 Alea Lovely: Truth and the secret. When it came out
00:21:35.130 --> 00:21:40.030 Alea Lovely: it left out a lot that people needed to hear instead of just policing their thoughts.
00:21:40.830 --> 00:21:46.629 Alea Lovely: The next is M, which is manifestation. What do you want? You would be surprised how many clients I work with that don't actually know what they want.
00:21:46.830 --> 00:22:00.259 Alea Lovely: and they are fighting with inauthentic desires versus their authentic desires. What society says I should be doing, or how much I should be making, or you know what's successful to them, and I'm not ultimately happy. At the end of the day, when I get those things
00:22:00.380 --> 00:22:00.920 Alea Lovely: and.
00:22:00.920 --> 00:22:01.340 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:22:01.340 --> 00:22:06.780 Alea Lovely: Then, you know, versus like what would actually make me happy like for some people it might be a tiny house in the woods.
00:22:06.940 --> 00:22:14.009 Alea Lovely: and that's so. Counterculture to like. What we're told is supposed to be the dream, the penthouse, or, you know, whatever the Ferrari, and so on.
00:22:14.020 --> 00:22:25.950 Alea Lovely: So then you get into the anti belief like I can have this thing, but I can't, because I'd like to have this thing. But I can't, because and whatever narrative we're holding onto. And some of those narratives are very real.
00:22:25.980 --> 00:22:34.460 Alea Lovely: like, some of them are like, Okay, I can't get a bank loan because I don't make enough money and da da, but it's like you don't make enough money right now.
00:22:35.520 --> 00:22:43.849 Alea Lovely: That it's not available to you at all, and you give up because you can't see further down the line what might be possible for you. A good example for you is this book
00:22:43.910 --> 00:22:46.749 Alea Lovely: I've written. This is not my 1st book. This is my 3rd book.
00:22:47.110 --> 00:22:47.670 elizabeth tripp: Nice.
00:22:47.670 --> 00:22:50.840 Alea Lovely: Self-published 2 books before this that absolutely, completely flopped.
00:22:51.130 --> 00:22:51.680 elizabeth tripp: I can see.
00:22:51.680 --> 00:22:56.279 Alea Lovely: Myself. I want to be a writer. I want to be an author. I have things to say.
00:22:56.280 --> 00:22:56.790 elizabeth tripp: Yeah. No.
00:22:56.790 --> 00:23:06.680 Alea Lovely: Nobody would take my books, nobody would take the pitches, nobody would take the proposals. And then, 15 years later, from my 1st book, someone enters my Dms and says, Would you like to collaborate on my book?
00:23:07.040 --> 00:23:08.449 Alea Lovely: Hell, yeah. You know.
00:23:09.420 --> 00:23:19.560 Alea Lovely: That point. It was just so. It was still a desire I didn't give up on that desire. And there's a difference between like allowing the universe to bring it to you. Universe, what do you have for me versus
00:23:19.720 --> 00:23:21.400 Alea Lovely: being in defeat and saying
00:23:22.470 --> 00:23:27.769 Alea Lovely: with that that will never happen, because we're trying to protect ourselves from disappointment and from
00:23:27.800 --> 00:23:30.739 Alea Lovely: hope honestly, because it takes energy to hope it can be.
00:23:30.740 --> 00:23:31.770 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:23:31.920 --> 00:23:35.630 Alea Lovely: So sometimes we're just not vulnerable enough to be able to let ourselves hope
00:23:35.760 --> 00:23:51.369 Alea Lovely: so. Then you go into growth. What behaviors need to change in order for me to actually like, put those things in play like, what steps do I need to do? How could I see the end of this tunnel. These are, the more the practical ways. This is ongoing process, too. So you don't get.
00:23:51.810 --> 00:23:56.250 Alea Lovely: And then just you're done. It's definitely something that you keep going through and refining.
00:23:56.250 --> 00:23:56.900 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:23:56.900 --> 00:24:05.929 Alea Lovely: To the integration process, which is when you really start to feel that growth actually happen. So a good example of this is like, I've always struggled with my weight
00:24:06.070 --> 00:24:13.459 Alea Lovely: and some early early imprints from my mother, who also struggled with her weight. She told me when I was 5
00:24:13.808 --> 00:24:18.259 Alea Lovely: I'm so sorry you got my body type. You're always going to struggle with your weight.
00:24:18.440 --> 00:24:32.090 Alea Lovely: And 5, you know, and I'm thinking even her own hurt, and what she's experienced in her own life, she thought. You know, she's apologizing for something, and you just never know with kids what's going to stick that stuck with me.
00:24:32.090 --> 00:24:48.820 Alea Lovely: And so I had that already programming. Then I went through the Christian church. Your body's problematic. You're developing too early. You're going to make your brother stumble. And suddenly, now my body is a problem for other people. And then, being in college, where then I was trigger warning, kidnapped by a football player
00:24:48.990 --> 00:24:49.710 Alea Lovely: who went twice.
00:24:49.710 --> 00:24:50.410 elizabeth tripp: Right.
00:24:50.410 --> 00:24:58.370 Alea Lovely: And some things happened that should not have happened should have never happened, and coming back from that experience and learning that I'm not safe in the body that I'm in.
00:24:58.980 --> 00:24:59.940 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:25:00.440 --> 00:25:03.220 Alea Lovely: What do I do? I eat to protect that, to protect.
00:25:03.220 --> 00:25:03.840 elizabeth tripp: Me from the app.
00:25:03.840 --> 00:25:12.360 Alea Lovely: So I don't feel attracted to other people. And so through that experience, I'm going through this growth issue where I'm going.
00:25:12.580 --> 00:25:21.710 Alea Lovely: You know you're you're lazy, you don't work out enough. You don't do this. You don't do that. And hating myself because I can't seem to get over this hump, thinking that I'm not.
00:25:21.730 --> 00:25:25.039 Alea Lovely: What I want to manifest is a size 6 body.
00:25:25.810 --> 00:25:44.330 Alea Lovely: My belief is I can't do it because I'm too lazy, or I have hormone issues, or whatever the thing is then getting into the growth point of going, the actionable steps would look like this. But the actual integration being, Wow, I realize that it's not that I'm lazy and that I'm disappointing myself. It is that I am more afraid of men
00:25:44.430 --> 00:25:49.550 Alea Lovely: than having a fat body than having death due to bad health.
00:25:49.870 --> 00:25:57.699 Alea Lovely: I would prefer. This is how my Psyche stays safe. And then in that integration process, get to say, now, what do you want to do with that?
00:25:58.140 --> 00:26:04.570 Alea Lovely: Like you can continue to be safe. You can find a compromise. You can actually override that programming if you're aware of it. And my.
00:26:04.570 --> 00:26:04.980 elizabeth tripp: Microbes.
00:26:04.980 --> 00:26:07.540 Alea Lovely: My compromise was, I would like to be strong.
00:26:07.760 --> 00:26:10.450 Alea Lovely: so now I can like press 550 pounds.
00:26:11.740 --> 00:26:14.670 Alea Lovely: That like nobody's knocking over, you know.
00:26:15.340 --> 00:26:16.010 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:26:16.010 --> 00:26:21.119 Alea Lovely: I feel safe, and I feel strong, and that's the type of messaging I want to give to my daughter.
00:26:21.200 --> 00:26:24.299 Alea Lovely: It's like you. You don't need to be smaller to fit into.
00:26:24.300 --> 00:26:24.650 elizabeth tripp: This.
00:26:24.650 --> 00:26:45.000 Alea Lovely: World, you can be strong. So that was my integration process. Then you go to noticing which is the process of being able to see the synchronicities that happen that are trying to get you to that manifestation that you want noticing your thought patterns, changing the angel numbers. How little opportunities start to sprinkle in. You're trying to manifest a partner. And suddenly you start getting attention from people.
00:26:45.070 --> 00:27:02.300 Alea Lovely: and you're like, Oh, my God! It must be him! It must be the one, and when it doesn't work out it's like, Oh, no, no, that doesn't mean that. It's not going to happen. It means that you open something inside of yourself that said, Look, you're going in the right direction. We're showing you. You're going in the right direction. So if you can cultivate that noticing, you can
00:27:02.420 --> 00:27:06.379 Alea Lovely: be more patient through the process of what the universe is trying to get. You.
00:27:06.810 --> 00:27:07.910 elizabeth tripp: Or give you.
00:27:07.910 --> 00:27:17.059 Alea Lovely: And so like to me like when I was trying to manifest a partner. I remember being in Bali in Shavasana, recognizing that at 9 years old, I decided to have to do everything by myself.
00:27:17.270 --> 00:27:35.220 Alea Lovely: and that there was no space for a man or a partner to come into my life because I was the one doing everything. So when I noticed that I was like, I'm ready to release this ideal or this narrative that I have to do everything by myself, that I am open, and trusting enough to allow someone else to come into my life and have an actual partner.
00:27:35.400 --> 00:27:36.460 elizabeth tripp: And when I did that.
00:27:36.460 --> 00:27:39.060 Alea Lovely: And started happening is suddenly I was noticeable.
00:27:39.460 --> 00:27:40.109 elizabeth tripp: Other people.
00:27:40.110 --> 00:27:48.100 Alea Lovely: Which I'd never been. And suddenly, you know, I'm getting stopped at it like there was a guy at the airport that stopped and was like, are you an Earth angel?
00:27:48.160 --> 00:27:49.449 Alea Lovely: And I'm like what kind of.
00:27:49.955 --> 00:27:50.460 elizabeth tripp: Like.
00:27:50.460 --> 00:27:51.370 Alea Lovely: Mine is
00:27:52.840 --> 00:27:55.630 Alea Lovely: saying you okay, like, stop blowing. Smoke up my ass.
00:27:55.910 --> 00:27:56.380 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:27:57.010 --> 00:28:18.979 Alea Lovely: Comes to me, and he's like, no like I can. I can recognize your anyway, I go to Paris. That's why I was on the flight, and I get there. And then this, you know, London guy comes up to me, and he's like, Oh, hey, babes where you headed, and it was just like, I mean, in nice people like good, nice people, and they didn't end up being the one. But it started to show me that like, oh, wait! I'm getting close
00:28:19.460 --> 00:28:28.110 Alea Lovely: happening. The the thing is tipping. I'm I'm shifting into the frequency of the thing I'm trying to call in, and 3 months later I meet my husband, so.
00:28:28.110 --> 00:28:29.150 elizabeth tripp: It was, Wow.
00:28:29.150 --> 00:28:43.580 Alea Lovely: Like. Once I started to notice the pattern. I'm like, I'm on to something. Something has happened instead of taking it a disappointment that it didn't work out. It was like, the door is being opened. Okay, we're here. So then you get into E, which is expansion.
00:28:43.860 --> 00:28:50.449 elizabeth tripp: Yeah, and let me pause you there because we're gonna take a quick break, and I want to hear about expansion. But wow!
00:28:50.450 --> 00:28:51.020 Alea Lovely: We can.
00:28:51.020 --> 00:28:52.899 elizabeth tripp: Have an amazing formula here.
00:28:53.415 --> 00:28:53.929 Alea Lovely: So.
00:28:53.930 --> 00:29:00.299 elizabeth tripp: Aaliyah. Let's take a break, and everybody when we get back we're going to hear about the expansion part. All right. We'll be back in a few.
00:31:04.570 --> 00:31:22.989 elizabeth tripp: Welcome back. This is Elizabeth Tripp, your host of nourish the soul. We're talking to Aaliyah lovely! And we were just diving into her. Imagine method in her new book, meaningful manifestation.
00:31:23.270 --> 00:31:32.030 elizabeth tripp: Alia, tell us about the E right. This is the expansion part of the book, and we really want to know about what happens here.
00:31:32.380 --> 00:31:37.524 Alea Lovely: Yeah. So the expansion part might be the most fun, because it's when you finally get the thing that you want.
00:31:38.296 --> 00:31:39.874 elizabeth tripp: That is fun.
00:31:40.400 --> 00:31:45.250 Alea Lovely: Super fun. It's like, Oh, great the the problem often is is that we don't stay here long enough
00:31:45.450 --> 00:31:52.389 Alea Lovely: to enjoy to have gratitude over what we've worked so hard for, and what has finally come into our awareness, into our existence.
00:31:52.650 --> 00:32:01.390 Alea Lovely: And you know, even if we do take some time to like, really sit with it. What we have called into our life ends up, ultimately leveling us up
00:32:01.700 --> 00:32:09.750 Alea Lovely: and helping us expand. And I don't think a lot of people talk about what happens when you get the thing that you want, and then you realize it doesn't make you happy.
00:32:10.250 --> 00:32:10.980 elizabeth tripp: It's oh.
00:32:10.980 --> 00:32:17.940 Alea Lovely: I really did want this thing. And this thing is really great. It's really amazing. But ultimately, like, happiness is an inside job.
00:32:18.100 --> 00:32:24.900 Alea Lovely: This is something that is like. If I'm not manifesting things that are meaningful, they feel flat.
00:32:25.500 --> 00:32:26.230 elizabeth tripp: It's like, Oh.
00:32:26.230 --> 00:32:30.630 Alea Lovely: I really wanted to get this material item and you get it finally. And it's like.
00:32:30.960 --> 00:32:32.600 Alea Lovely: Oh, well, I don't. That little
00:32:33.130 --> 00:32:59.120 Alea Lovely: sparkle lasts, for just, you know, a moment. But even the meaningful things that you wanted to manifest, you know, like I, manifested my partner, my podcast and my job taking off a baby where my doctor said like it was impossible to be able to get pregnant for me. Just in a house house during a pandemic, like so many things that I manifested not just any house. By the way, I have to tell the story.
00:32:59.120 --> 00:32:59.540 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:32:59.540 --> 00:33:01.000 Alea Lovely: Live down the street.
00:33:01.030 --> 00:33:27.549 Alea Lovely: and I used to drive by this house on my way to work, and I lived in a 2 bedroom. It was a very small house, $90,000 like I was really proud of myself when I was 20, something I bought a $90,000 house, and it needed a lot of work. But I would drive by this house on the way to work and go. Wow! What would it be to live in a house like that that would be so amazing and so on. And so, anyway, we were during the pandemic looking for a house. I was pregnant, and I had to dream about a house with a red roof.
00:33:27.650 --> 00:33:39.469 Alea Lovely: and I didn't. We found a house, but it didn't have a red roof, and I remember thinking like, Oh, it doesn't have the red roof but right before we closed they had a huge massive sewage break, and that would be like 40 grand to fix.
00:33:39.500 --> 00:33:42.520 Alea Lovely: and they're like, you're welcome to walk away from this house at this point.
00:33:42.808 --> 00:33:47.140 Alea Lovely: And I felt so upset about it because we worked for 4 months to try to get this house.
00:33:47.180 --> 00:33:52.850 Alea Lovely: And so the day that I let it go, I said, you know what I'm just going to surrender like universe. You know what you're doing.
00:33:53.112 --> 00:33:56.940 Alea Lovely: This day this house came on the market, and I saw it, and it has a red roof.
00:33:57.040 --> 00:33:58.250 Alea Lovely: and I was like.
00:33:58.540 --> 00:34:03.480 Alea Lovely: why does the house look so familiar to me? And I look at the address, and I'm like no way.
00:34:04.410 --> 00:34:08.920 Alea Lovely: 15, something years ago I used to drive by every day and wonder what it.
00:34:08.929 --> 00:34:10.229 elizabeth tripp: Wow!
00:34:10.230 --> 00:34:24.920 Alea Lovely: So we got there, and there was a man who was, you know, usually when you go to look at a house, the owner's not there, but for whatever reason the owner was there. And you know, when we went in and talked to him and met him, and just talking about how much this house was perfect for us, etc.
00:34:25.050 --> 00:34:45.989 Alea Lovely: And even though they got a bunch of offers over asking price, he said, I want that couple to have it like the couple with the couple kids and the pregnant lady. I want them to have it, and I felt chosen, you know, and I was like I knew it. I knew this we manifested so that feeling so, you know, we moved into this house. I absolutely love our house, but the house
00:34:45.989 --> 00:35:12.550 Alea Lovely: always needs work. There's always something to be doing. I was literally like, right before we started this interview I had to take down all of the plastic wrap that's sitting to my left because we're painting the ceiling, just, you know, like water stuff, whatever, like so much work that has to go into this house. So there are these moments where it's like, I'm incredibly grateful that we bought at a time, right before the market went crazy, that we had a place for my child to have her memories that everybody's got their own space and own bedroom. And
00:35:12.960 --> 00:35:17.890 Alea Lovely: I feel really really grateful to have all of those things, and
00:35:17.990 --> 00:35:22.259 Alea Lovely: I still go. You know what? If we ever buy another house I'll get a smaller house
00:35:22.510 --> 00:35:32.199 Alea Lovely: like it's a lot to clean. It's a lot to do here. It's a lot to do, maybe in a better neighborhood. Maybe the fence should be fenced, and we might stay in this house forever. I don't know. But there being these like
00:35:33.360 --> 00:35:38.609 Alea Lovely: changes or refinements essentially, that once you get the thing that you've expanded into going.
00:35:38.720 --> 00:35:47.929 Alea Lovely: Okay. Now that I know this is something that I might ask for the next time, because it's a to me manifestation is just a process of knowing self.
00:35:48.690 --> 00:35:49.530 elizabeth tripp: Right. You get.
00:35:49.530 --> 00:35:55.780 Alea Lovely: To know yourself like, what does it mean to know yourself? And so I think that this this process is
00:35:55.880 --> 00:35:59.380 Alea Lovely: number one, I mean, I'm biased. I wrote the book, so I think it's really good.
00:35:59.840 --> 00:36:04.059 Alea Lovely: but I use it with a lot of my clients, and I can just see those light bulbs go on.
00:36:04.160 --> 00:36:18.320 Alea Lovely: It was gone. Because you're going through each thing that you want, and being able to work out very just step by step. What's either stopping you. What's in the way? What you haven't noticed, what you feel grateful for, what you don't, and how that.
00:36:18.590 --> 00:36:22.100 Alea Lovely: how that teaches you more about who you are and what you actually want.
00:36:22.220 --> 00:36:29.650 Alea Lovely: And so you might have spent half your lifetime trying to manifest things. You don't actually want only to get to a place where it feels like you're starting all over and saying, like.
00:36:29.770 --> 00:36:31.830 Alea Lovely: you know, who do. I want to be? This iteration.
00:36:32.310 --> 00:36:55.859 elizabeth tripp: Yeah, wow, I mean, because we all have this ability to create right. And when we have the awareness to be able to follow a process to create intentionally, and then also, you know, grow through the iterations of our life. The new kind of experiences we come into, we can refine and come into a more
00:36:55.860 --> 00:37:09.460 elizabeth tripp: kind of aligned what I hear you saying an aligned process of you know, being intentional about how we create and how it evolves through our ability to manifest. So
00:37:09.730 --> 00:37:33.390 elizabeth tripp: you just said so many amazing things from the beginning of this segment to the last one, and something I just wanted to touch point on which I think really ties into what you've created, and you can, you know, be be. You can sound bored back to me if I'm hearing this correctly, that in the imagine method in your book, in meaningful manifestation, it's really about
00:37:33.950 --> 00:37:40.479 elizabeth tripp: coming away from maybe the hard work that people attach to manifestation, like.
00:37:40.570 --> 00:37:45.919 elizabeth tripp: you know, in the secret, I think a lot of people misunderstood it as like
00:37:45.940 --> 00:38:05.550 elizabeth tripp: something that had to be repeated and methodical and focused on, and really kind of from a fear base of when will this happen? And you know all this prayer will make it work, so this force will bring it forward, that that kind of created a culture where people.
00:38:05.770 --> 00:38:18.269 elizabeth tripp: maybe without awareness, really have been manifesting out of this more lack consciousness than truly from an abundance place within themselves, where just getting to know themselves better.
00:38:18.570 --> 00:38:22.789 elizabeth tripp: Clearing out the narrative. Right? Really saying, Okay, this is what I want.
00:38:23.210 --> 00:38:30.030 elizabeth tripp: Okay, what is it that I'm really telling myself? Or what experience did I have that really separates me from this?
00:38:30.080 --> 00:38:42.716 elizabeth tripp: And how can I grow into the person that I'm I know I need to be in order to have this and go through that integration and then see these synchronicities. This is what I'm hearing. You did so.
00:38:43.040 --> 00:38:51.730 Alea Lovely: And I mean, absolutely the thing is is like when we think about what we're trying to manifest. Oftentimes, when we fear something's not coming.
00:38:53.060 --> 00:39:02.129 Alea Lovely: What can I do? What can I do? Kind of can I do? But when we're in a place where we're in like I am in sovereign awareness that, like the universe, is going to provide what it is that I need.
00:39:02.360 --> 00:39:02.760 elizabeth tripp: And then.
00:39:02.760 --> 00:39:10.010 Alea Lovely: Out about it like, obviously, there are actionable steps that need to be had and need to be done. But there are also places where it's like.
00:39:10.250 --> 00:39:13.849 Alea Lovely: all right, like it's kind of out of my hands like the house situation, like.
00:39:14.030 --> 00:39:20.110 Alea Lovely: all right we had. We had to take a L. When it came to the house, and I was like, All right, University. You're supposed to know what you're doing. Show me.
00:39:20.300 --> 00:39:20.700 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:39:20.700 --> 00:39:34.020 Alea Lovely: You know what you're doing? And then us being able to get the house in that way, and it was like the book, you know. Deal, my partner, you know all of those things. There was always this massive surrender point where it was like, I'm trying. I'm trying. I'm trying, and nothing's working. So I.
00:39:34.020 --> 00:39:34.680 elizabeth tripp: Channeling.
00:39:34.680 --> 00:39:37.530 Alea Lovely: Took a breath and said, All right, universe, what do you have for me? And that's when.
00:39:37.530 --> 00:39:38.440 elizabeth tripp: Let me!
00:39:38.440 --> 00:39:39.390 Alea Lovely: Changed.
00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:49.790 elizabeth tripp: Yeah. And I know you're a mommy. And that's so exciting. And I love that. And actually, I feel like the audience could really use, you know, for those
00:39:50.260 --> 00:40:09.029 elizabeth tripp: people. Hi, who are, you know, in maybe this kind of older, we'll say age frame according to mainstream medical, you know. Practitioners that. Say, Oh, you can't get pregnant, or you know this isn't possible. You know. How would someone like yourself.
00:40:09.430 --> 00:40:22.679 elizabeth tripp: you know, advise someone spiritually using the method that maybe you've created. If you'd like to integrate this into your book, someone who may be in that position or space, a woman who may be just struggling with that right now.
00:40:24.000 --> 00:40:27.209 Alea Lovely: Can you repeat the question as my toddler was yelling at me.
00:40:27.492 --> 00:40:37.390 elizabeth tripp: So I know a lot of women, you know, who are in this like kind of the the medical mainstream would say, like older age bracket. They would even call them like what's it called.
00:40:37.390 --> 00:40:38.620 Alea Lovely: Geriatric.
00:40:38.620 --> 00:40:39.713 elizabeth tripp: Yeah. Yes.
00:40:40.720 --> 00:40:41.170 Alea Lovely: Yes.
00:40:41.170 --> 00:41:01.339 elizabeth tripp: And and there's this inundation. And you talk about this in the beginning of the show of like a cultural kind of indoctrination of you know how we perceive ourselves as an older woman, quote unquote from the medical perspective? How do we help women break through that? Because maybe they didn't need a partner till later in life, or.
00:41:01.340 --> 00:41:01.710 Alea Lovely: Yeah.
00:41:01.710 --> 00:41:05.809 elizabeth tripp: You know. Maybe career took precedence where you know. Maybe
00:41:06.140 --> 00:41:14.949 elizabeth tripp: they truly felt the calling a little bit older than they did in their mid thirties, because things are totally different than they were 10 or 15 years ago, or even 20.
00:41:14.980 --> 00:41:30.460 elizabeth tripp: So my question is, is using your method. Imagine method, or just giving an example, maybe just advising women in this space, because I know they're in watching this. What would you tell them? How would you guide them to shift their
00:41:31.250 --> 00:41:33.479 elizabeth tripp: vibration to manifest it.
00:41:33.480 --> 00:41:43.450 Alea Lovely: I think for me it was really difficult, because the the aspect of of our patriarchy that we live within is so focused on like youth
00:41:43.550 --> 00:41:56.769 Alea Lovely: like you have to be young enough to do this. You're going to miss out on everything. Your biological clock is ticking. You may have, you know no trouble conceiving you might have a lot of trouble conceiving you could have trouble conceiving when you're 20,
00:41:56.840 --> 00:42:12.620 Alea Lovely: like versus when you're 40, like there, there are lots of things. There's so many varieties and factors that can play a role in that. But this message of like you're you're running out of time, like, you know, that meme that's going around right now is like, you know, you have 30 min, and they're like.
00:42:13.500 --> 00:42:13.990 Alea Lovely: and.
00:42:13.990 --> 00:42:14.510 elizabeth tripp: Like I.
00:42:14.510 --> 00:42:24.569 Alea Lovely: Feel like that. We're always telling women like you don't have enough time. You're behind. You don't know who you are, you know. Figure it out, and it's like there's so much life to be lived
00:42:24.660 --> 00:42:26.510 Alea Lovely: and like especially
00:42:27.160 --> 00:42:28.729 Alea Lovely: can't go. Party, sweetie.
00:42:29.240 --> 00:42:34.210 Alea Lovely: The reality of having a toddler. My husband just went to work. So okay, go.
00:42:34.210 --> 00:42:34.960 elizabeth tripp: It's.
00:42:35.730 --> 00:42:37.090 elizabeth tripp: It is amazing.
00:42:37.090 --> 00:42:55.729 Alea Lovely: Thank you. But that that feeling of like, I don't have any control. I don't know what to do. And so, being able to give that back to yourself as far as your power and say, like, I'm not running out of time. I'm exactly where I need to be, and because fertility is so
00:42:55.730 --> 00:43:09.189 Alea Lovely: it's such a like tough topic, right? It's so fraught with a lot of emotions. I'm not enough. My body should be doing something, and it can't, or whatever it's like. Oh, do I have to choose between this and my career? I was very
00:43:09.300 --> 00:43:11.470 Alea Lovely: astute on knowing that I was not
00:43:11.610 --> 00:43:13.580 Alea Lovely: choosing between the 2. If if it had.
00:43:13.580 --> 00:43:14.250 elizabeth tripp: To come down to it.
00:43:14.250 --> 00:43:25.420 Alea Lovely: I was going to prick my career, because, like, I'm my oldest daughter, so that might have something to do with it. But I was married beforehand, and I was very sure I did not want to have children with him, because I did not want to have to parent alone, and I knew that that.
00:43:25.420 --> 00:43:26.689 elizabeth tripp: As part of the journey.
00:43:26.690 --> 00:43:27.160 Alea Lovely: So.
00:43:27.160 --> 00:43:27.840 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:43:27.840 --> 00:43:33.940 Alea Lovely: When I met David, my husband, I was like I just I knew I wanted to have a child with him put a baby in me now like he was.
00:43:33.940 --> 00:43:34.310 elizabeth tripp: Wow!
00:43:34.310 --> 00:43:50.509 Alea Lovely: He's such a fantastic person and father. And so I was very aware that I was like, Okay, this feels like the right time, but not because I was rushing into it, not because I was like. I absolutely need to do this right now, or I'm going to miss my chance. That to me is scarcity, mentality.
00:43:50.510 --> 00:43:51.410 elizabeth tripp: And unfortunately.
00:43:51.410 --> 00:43:55.979 Alea Lovely: It's very real, it's very. It feels very real. But like
00:43:56.150 --> 00:44:03.720 Alea Lovely: if if and I know, this sounds like very reductive. But if it's not meant for you like. If it or if it's meant for you, it won't miss you.
00:44:04.090 --> 00:44:04.960 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:44:04.960 --> 00:44:06.210 Alea Lovely: It won't miss you.
00:44:06.610 --> 00:44:20.050 elizabeth tripp: Well, listen, Aaliyah, let's take a quick break, and then when we get back, we'll keep diving into this particular subject here, and even hearing a little bit more, and I love that it's meant for you. It won't miss you, so we'll take a few minute break. Okay.
00:46:28.090 --> 00:46:51.560 elizabeth tripp: Welcome back. This is the beauty of a live show. I've always loved this, and you know I forgot to tell you I lived in New York for 12 years. So I know what it means. Yeah, I know what it means. And this is a New York City base station. So this is going out to all of our friends and family and everybody we know in New York City. But I'm talking with Aaliyah lovely.
00:46:51.560 --> 00:46:58.560 elizabeth tripp: and she is launching this November, her new book, meaningful Manifestations, and
00:46:58.560 --> 00:47:04.190 elizabeth tripp: essentially the book addresses the gaps that other manifestation books gloss over.
00:47:04.210 --> 00:47:18.850 elizabeth tripp: and she really has this beautiful framework that was channeled. Alia is a very powerful channel and gifted channel, called the Imagine Method. And I was just curious with you because your beautiful baby girl was right there.
00:47:19.210 --> 00:47:35.669 elizabeth tripp: And you know, I know there's a lot of women. And we were just talking about this, that struggle with conception or coming into that space where they're a little older and you were just sharing your advice. What is meant for you will. What did you say? It was actually quite unique. If it's meant for you.
00:47:35.670 --> 00:47:36.819 Alea Lovely: Miss you.
00:47:36.820 --> 00:47:38.480 elizabeth tripp: It will not miss you. Yeah.
00:47:38.480 --> 00:47:44.870 Alea Lovely: I wish I could take credit for that quote like, it's something that I've seen run around quite a bit. I might have said it that way particularly, but it's a
00:47:44.910 --> 00:47:48.919 Alea Lovely: it's a strong tenet in the way that I live my life, because
00:47:48.960 --> 00:48:02.790 Alea Lovely: if it is a desire of yours like that's where the magic method comes in is vetting those desires. Why do I want that particular thing just to give you some very raw insight? You know my daughter came in here, you heard her say, I have to go potty. And then she threw up in my hand.
00:48:02.800 --> 00:48:32.300 Alea Lovely: So that's real fun. And being a working mom like, I'm sure people can relate. So you know, just knowing the avenues and the challenges that come with that. And you know not. I have a few friends who've gone through really, really intense fertility journeys to get to the end and not have produced a baby, some that got to the end and have produced a baby. So really to me, is very, very independent. And and that is why I don't think that the Law of Attraction is a law. It's a principle.
00:48:32.300 --> 00:48:32.720 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:48:32.720 --> 00:49:02.190 Alea Lovely: Because it doesn't work the same for everybody. You can't think yourself positively enough out of. You know your diagnosis or out of you know something that's happened to you. However, I do think that the soul is on a very strong journey towards the growth of what you know, and that's my own particular belief of what you your soul wants to learn, and so that might be a process of surrender that might be, you know, learning how to to be free in your own life, my friend, who really struggled with her journey 12 years and no baby
00:49:03.160 --> 00:49:13.950 Alea Lovely: now she lives in Phoenix. She's a fantastic person. By the way, this is like the most amazing, most inspiring person you'd ever meet. But and she's living this life according to her own means, she gets to do whatever she wants.
00:49:14.300 --> 00:49:14.730 elizabeth tripp: I don't.
00:49:14.730 --> 00:49:18.900 Alea Lovely: Girl you call hear me anytime. You want to hear kids crying, and you know, like the whole thing.
00:49:18.900 --> 00:49:19.260 elizabeth tripp: Done.
00:49:19.260 --> 00:49:30.429 Alea Lovely: And and her finding a different perspective because she was raised in a Christian household where everybody had 12 kids, you know, everybody had, you know, like her brother-in-law's, you know.
00:49:30.640 --> 00:49:37.260 Alea Lovely: I don't know 14 kids or something like there's so the family massive right? And she's the only one that doesn't have a child, but she's
00:49:37.730 --> 00:49:39.750 Alea Lovely: only one that like asks
00:49:39.830 --> 00:49:59.389 Alea Lovely: proper questions, or what I would consider proper questions, critical thinking, and has a different perspective on the world, and how to love people, and what she's able to give to people is so much greater like she's able to be a mother to so many others, and what she teaches in the wisdom, and how she inspires others. And you know some people might listen to that and go. Well, that's not what I want, you know.
00:50:00.140 --> 00:50:00.645 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:50:01.150 --> 00:50:02.789 Alea Lovely: That's why I think it's not a law.
00:50:03.040 --> 00:50:22.509 elizabeth tripp: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can agree with that for sure. Because I think there's a lot of, you know, ways that other dynamics included in our soul's journey that often we could go into a mindset of oh, why me? But really there's a greater vaster picture unfolding, and what popped into my head was, you know
00:50:22.530 --> 00:50:30.210 elizabeth tripp: you you can channel. So when people come to you and and they may have this challenge, and they're asking for your spiritual advice.
00:50:30.340 --> 00:50:44.889 elizabeth tripp: are you able to tap into that higher truth from their guides or their soul? And and through this process give them like a unbiased kind of information that could alleviate. Maybe some of the suffering or pain that they're going through.
00:50:44.890 --> 00:50:57.519 Alea Lovely: Absolutely. The thing is, though, is that because everybody's different and everybody has different level of attachments to the manifestations they're trying to draw in. Sometimes the advice from their soul is not what they want to hear, or they're not ready
00:50:58.300 --> 00:50:58.700 Alea Lovely: and sometimes
00:50:59.110 --> 00:51:06.529 Alea Lovely: be hard. I mean, I think I'm pretty a pretty good read on people where I'm like. You know, like this is how we might deliver this where it's most digestible.
00:51:06.810 --> 00:51:07.190 elizabeth tripp: Hmm.
00:51:07.190 --> 00:51:31.520 Alea Lovely: Sometimes it is tough, you know, like I know for myself, all I wanted was like a partner that loved me, and I signed up 1st for someone who didn't, and someone who used me and left me high and dry. And, you know, like watching all of my friends move on with their life, and have their babies, and have partners that were their best friends. And we've been married for 18 years, and me being still, you know, single and still struggling with the situation. Ship
00:51:33.690 --> 00:51:43.179 Alea Lovely: can out of it, felt really unfair. It was just like, why, why am I the one being left out of this story. Everybody else gets to have that. And yet
00:51:43.260 --> 00:51:55.630 Alea Lovely: here I am with the podcast. And a book and doing some really phenomenal things that I may not have had the attention for, and the confidence to do if I had a family I was raising at the time. So Heinz.
00:51:55.630 --> 00:51:55.950 elizabeth tripp: And.
00:51:55.950 --> 00:52:07.960 Alea Lovely: 2020, and I get an opportunity to get to see that the older I get, the clearer it gets, but getting to see more and more that, like, I feel personally that the universe does have
00:52:08.000 --> 00:52:13.470 Alea Lovely: my best interest in mind, but at the same time, looking around the world and going.
00:52:13.570 --> 00:52:24.740 Alea Lovely: I mean. Goodness gracious! Like, I'm lucky that I'm living in America, where I have access to clean water and food. Does the universe not have the best in mind for the people that are living overseas
00:52:24.970 --> 00:52:25.650 Alea Lovely: and have
00:52:26.060 --> 00:52:34.079 Alea Lovely: questions. Those curiosities are the people that can't pay their rent, or who live in abusive children who grow up in abusive household things like that, where I'm like the
00:52:34.690 --> 00:52:35.700 Alea Lovely: isn't fair
00:52:36.010 --> 00:52:36.550 Alea Lovely: and.
00:52:36.550 --> 00:52:36.939 elizabeth tripp: It wouldn't.
00:52:36.940 --> 00:52:38.850 Alea Lovely: Be naive
00:52:38.900 --> 00:52:41.319 Alea Lovely: to kind of approach it in that way, and not for.
00:52:41.320 --> 00:52:41.920 elizabeth tripp: The person.
00:52:41.920 --> 00:52:44.870 Alea Lovely: Necessarily, but especially the responsibility as a teacher
00:52:45.810 --> 00:52:55.500 Alea Lovely: come from that perspective of everything shakes out and everything happens for a reason. It's a little gaslighting to people who really have had it hard.
00:52:55.570 --> 00:53:05.420 Alea Lovely: And so we need to recognize, at least from for me and my own beliefs. And and you know you can throw this away if you don't believe that. But I do think that my soul has signed up for certain lessons
00:53:05.440 --> 00:53:14.730 Alea Lovely: and for certain awarenesses and things that other souls have not, and in that it can be really difficult to see.
00:53:14.830 --> 00:53:18.539 Alea Lovely: Where's my stuff? Why isn't this fair? You know?
00:53:19.040 --> 00:53:24.959 Alea Lovely: I think we are going through collective manifestations as well as a humanity, and we have
00:53:25.010 --> 00:53:30.990 Alea Lovely: in some ways chosen different roles. And you know what that looks like. Like, why did I come into a body
00:53:31.600 --> 00:53:44.340 Alea Lovely: versus, you know, being someone who's white, and you know, granted things would be a lot easier if I was, I think, and at the same time there's so many advantages to the hardship that I've experienced that has given me
00:53:44.510 --> 00:53:45.610 Alea Lovely: massive.
00:53:47.970 --> 00:54:02.339 Alea Lovely: You know. I don't have a problem with standing out wearing whatever I want, like having the tattoos. And I'm gonna go paint. Now, I'm going to be an artist now, and people like, how do you do that? That's crazy. You just post it online. And I'm like, because I've never fit in. To begin with, all the.
00:54:02.340 --> 00:54:03.000 elizabeth tripp: Because I went to.
00:54:03.000 --> 00:54:05.449 Alea Lovely: Was always ostracized. So like, Who's gonna
00:54:05.630 --> 00:54:08.310 Alea Lovely: who's gonna like? Make me feel afraid now
00:54:09.550 --> 00:54:17.839 Alea Lovely: always had that. And I have some friends who have always fit in who've always been the popular ones, and they have this crippling fear of being themselves.
00:54:18.470 --> 00:54:19.090 elizabeth tripp: Yeah.
00:54:19.230 --> 00:54:20.470 Alea Lovely: You know, so like
00:54:20.530 --> 00:54:26.219 Alea Lovely: it does shake out in some ways. But it's sometimes really difficult to see that perspective when you're going through it.
00:54:26.600 --> 00:54:37.690 elizabeth tripp: Oh, absolutely! And I can, and share in your you know your sentiment of, you know, recognizing some. Our higher self chooses things that often our own mind cannot even
00:54:38.150 --> 00:55:06.220 elizabeth tripp: comprehend, because you know in this world that we're in the pain and suffering and the things that we go through and the challenges that we face. They just are very real and often giving that as an antidote to relieve it is just not satisfying, and that, you know, really, we do have to hold that space of compassion and be able to allow people to express what it is that they're going through in their own way, because
00:55:06.220 --> 00:55:14.079 elizabeth tripp: that's truly how pain gets let out of how things start to resolve to when we we can have that space and that voice.
00:55:14.350 --> 00:55:20.678 elizabeth tripp: So listen, we're about to kind of come to the end. Can you believe it? The show goes by so fast.
00:55:20.990 --> 00:55:26.369 elizabeth tripp: So I want to ask you, you know, how are the ways that people can
00:55:26.790 --> 00:55:35.780 elizabeth tripp: get a copy of your book and also get connected with you. And then, once you answer that, I have one more question for you.
00:55:35.780 --> 00:55:50.170 Alea Lovely: Wonderful. You can find everything@thelovelyalia.com a lea.com. If you want to get the book, go slash book. You want to get my services slash services. You want to find me on Instagram at the lovely Alia. The book is being sold wherever books are sold.
00:55:50.720 --> 00:56:05.260 elizabeth tripp: Awesome. I love it. Okay. So if you could give humanity your advice about what is the purpose of being here right now on this planet. What would you say? What's the purpose of being here right now?
00:56:05.560 --> 00:56:06.200 Alea Lovely: Love
00:56:07.830 --> 00:56:13.740 Alea Lovely: oneself, to love others, to learn how to love others. We are marching into a very tumultuous week next week.
00:56:13.840 --> 00:56:14.490 Alea Lovely: and.
00:56:14.490 --> 00:56:15.230 elizabeth tripp: Let me just.
00:56:15.230 --> 00:56:25.019 Alea Lovely: Like, employ you to march into that with love, to be kind to your neighbor. Whatever you believe like, we are not leading the world or the charge with hate. It does not.
00:56:25.020 --> 00:56:25.760 elizabeth tripp: Work.
00:56:25.760 --> 00:56:32.970 Alea Lovely: Does not work for our souls. It does not work for our goals like, how can we hold compassion for people that are different than us that believe differently than us.
00:56:33.060 --> 00:56:37.800 Alea Lovely: That is what we're here like. How can we purify the soul and the way that we treat each other.
00:56:38.922 --> 00:56:42.720 elizabeth tripp: Beautiful, beautiful. Thank you so much.
00:56:42.720 --> 00:57:09.159 elizabeth tripp: Aliyah. Lovely for being here tonight on this podcast meaningful manifestations. You guys get a copy. I'm dropping the link in all of my live links and as well as on Spotify and Amazon and itunes and stitcher all the major podcasting platforms. Thank you so much. Everyone for being a part of this amazing community. Nourish the soul, podcast talk, radio show until we see you all. Next, namaste. Thank you.
00:57:10.130 --> 00:57:11.090 Alea Lovely: Thank you.
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