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Facebook Live Video from 2021/08/16 - The Past Does Not Define You

 
Facebook Live Video from 2021/08/16 - The Past Does Not Define You

 

2021/08/16 - The Past Does Not Define You

[NEW EPISODE] The Past Does Not Define You

The past does not define you!

Join us as we interview Cynthia James. Cynthia is a transformational specialist guiding people as they make changes for lasting healing in their lives. Cynthia’s life was transformed as she transcended a childhood of violence and abuse, and that experience created the foundation for all her programs.

Once a working Hollywood actress, Cynthia excels as a speaker, coach, singer and multiple-award winning author.

Cynthia has coached and supported thousands of people into vibrant living, including taking her workshops worldwide and to women in prison.

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Tune in for this philosophical conversation at TalkRadio.nyc or watch the Facebook Livestream by clicking here.


Show Notes

Segment 1

Tonight’s podcast episode starts off with host Georgeann reaching out to the audience and encouraging them to ask questions live on the show so that it can be answered by special guest: Cynthia James. Our hosts introduce Cynthia, a very accomplished transformational specialist. They introduce her book I Choose Me and bring up her Ted x talk. Cynthia explains her background and personal family history that explain how she came to be who she is today and all the works that she has done. Cynthia explains how her struggle and suffering throughout childhood had become the foundation of all her books and programs.

Segment 2

Coming back from the break, they begin to talk about the importance of passion and following it. For Cynthia, that passion was created. She wanted to follow her passions because by doing so, it brought her to another level. The three talk about how they are created to have a certain passion, whether it be creating or not, that they are meant to do. Cynthia explains how in order to find and follow a passion, you have to declutter life by sorting through all the history and baggage and then create a space that reflects what you would want.

Segment 3

Coming from the break, Cynthia goes into how spiritual practices are a great way to discover yourself on a deeper level. This leads to transitions and then truth telling. Cynthia explains the steps that people have to take to find healing in life after struggles and trauma. Cynthia tells a personal story of how she had pushed her physical well being past its limit and how due to that she was in danger of disease. The body is a tell to if you are holding yourself back or not progressing in your mental and spiritual health.

Segment 4

The last segment of tonight’s show starts with Cynthia explaining why she wanted to write her book. Women’s role in society was to take care of everyone else first, before the self. Cynthia believed that the self should come first. Once you are capable and able to take care of yourself, then you can spread that care to those around you. Tonight’s show ends with a warm prayer from Cynthia.


Transcript

00:00:36.150 --> 00:00:57.390 Georgeann Dau: Good evening and welcome to a journey through into awareness as always we're so happy that you're joining us and we hope that the show this evening, which is always our art will bring you a place that you can, if to the show spend time with reflect on meditate upon.

00:00:58.740 --> 00:01:01.500 Georgeann Dau: To have an addition to your life and well being.

00:01:02.610 --> 00:01:08.730 Georgeann Dau: So, as always, we have wonderful wonderful guests so we're so grateful that they say yes to coming on our show.

00:01:09.750 --> 00:01:19.530 Georgeann Dau: And during our show this evening, if we could just keep our minds and hearts open after prayer to the people in Haiti and Afghanistan and the suffering that's going on there.

00:01:20.820 --> 00:01:21.390 Georgeann Dau: So.

00:01:22.800 --> 00:01:33.300 Georgeann Dau: Tonight we have Cynthia James a transformational coach spiritual director and so much more and, by the way.

00:01:34.440 --> 00:01:45.690 Georgeann Dau: The three of us are actual coaches, you know i'm Dr George and Dale i'm a psychoanalyst and spiritual director and Judy is a life coach and breath work expert.

00:01:46.320 --> 00:01:58.800 Georgeann Dau: And Cynthia will be introduced to all of her blessings that she brings in a moment, but if there were any questions you have with for any of us please feel free You can write them down.

00:01:59.130 --> 00:02:06.840 Georgeann Dau: and send them over on Facebook and we can get them, while the show is live and maybe help you answer anything you might have on your.

00:02:07.980 --> 00:02:14.310 Georgeann Dau: So i'm i'm one of your hosts my better port is Judy Miller hi Judy.

00:02:14.850 --> 00:02:17.010 Judi Miller: ager Jan, thank you for that introduction.

00:02:18.150 --> 00:02:26.940 Judi Miller: it's always great to be here and yet do you have a fantastic guest so i'm so excited to have Reverend Cynthia James join us tonight on journey through to awareness.

00:02:27.450 --> 00:02:36.000 Judi Miller: As Cynthia knows well the past does not define us she is a transformational specialist guiding people as they make changes for lasting healing in their lives.

00:02:36.510 --> 00:02:44.700 Judi Miller: cynthia's life was transformed that she transcended the childhood of violence and abuse and that experience created the foundation for all of her programs.

00:02:45.090 --> 00:02:52.290 Judi Miller: Once a working Hollywood actress Cynthia excels as a speaker a coach a singer and multiple award winning author.

00:02:52.980 --> 00:03:00.780 Judi Miller: Cynthia has coached and supported thousands of people into vibrant living, including taking our workshops worldwide and two women in prison.

00:03:01.080 --> 00:03:08.340 Judi Miller: And I actually met Cynthia not so long ago, when she actually interviewed me for her podcast women awakening and it was such an honor to be on her show.

00:03:08.910 --> 00:03:18.990 Judi Miller: And as we mentioned she is the author of four books, the one that i'm holding up in Georgia and is holding up for our listeners, who are just listening via audio is I choose.

00:03:19.980 --> 00:03:20.430 me.

00:03:21.930 --> 00:03:22.560 Judi Miller: Yes, I.

00:03:23.280 --> 00:03:23.730 Do.

00:03:25.200 --> 00:03:33.360 Judi Miller: And there's so much wisdom in this book and I know she'll be sharing a lot of it with us so welcome Cynthia to journey to awareness.

00:03:34.050 --> 00:03:38.490 Cynthia James: Well Judy Thank you so much, and George and i'm so happy to be here with both of you.

00:03:39.510 --> 00:03:48.390 Judi Miller: Thank you so Cynthia the name of your tedx talk is the past does not define you can you share with our audience a little bit about your upbringing and what you had to overcome.

00:03:49.770 --> 00:04:03.480 Cynthia James: yeah I would be happy to do that, so you know I come from five generations of women who were traumatized and abused my great great grandmother was brought is a slave to this country put on a plantation.

00:04:03.750 --> 00:04:08.760 Cynthia James: And was actually raped by the plantation owner and became pregnant pregnant with my great grandmother.

00:04:09.240 --> 00:04:19.980 Cynthia James: And of course hated her, and so you know there's a whole thing about historical trauma and how it's encoded in our DNA, and so it just got passed down generation after generation.

00:04:20.370 --> 00:04:33.870 Cynthia James: And in my Ted talk, I talked about the kitchen wisdom, where my grandmother would be in the kitchen with us cooking and would be telling us keep your head down don't make trouble and all the things, but it was all about struggle and survival.

00:04:34.440 --> 00:04:45.780 Cynthia James: And there was a part of me that kept saying you know what it what it that's not my life, it made no sense that I was saying it because everybody around me was saying something opposite.

00:04:46.320 --> 00:04:59.520 Cynthia James: But my mother believed in education, even though we were on welfare, and you know moved a lot she believed in education and she kept saying to me, you can make a different life, a better life, become educated.

00:05:00.030 --> 00:05:14.910 Cynthia James: And so it became a focus for me and and a part of me being educated was my being able to use my gifts as a singer and a writer and a debater and all of those kinds of things, help me just move through school and become more visible.

00:05:16.710 --> 00:05:29.610 Judi Miller: wow how powerful so Cynthia one of the things that you talked about was epigenetics the science of epigenetics and how we get actually inherit Traumas from our ancestors so when that happens, how do we rewrite our stories.

00:05:30.870 --> 00:05:33.630 Cynthia James: Well, first of all, you have to become aware.

00:05:33.960 --> 00:05:46.800 Cynthia James: of your behaviors your thought patterns your mindset, you know I mean, I was very clear that I was repeating my familial patterns crazy relationships with addicted people, my father was an alcoholic my.

00:05:47.070 --> 00:05:56.760 Cynthia James: stepfather was a pedophile and a wife beater and I, and I, and I was watching you know, even though i'm saying as a kid or i'm not going to have that life I was recreating it.

00:05:57.060 --> 00:05:59.580 Cynthia James: yeah, so I think first thing is to become aware.

00:05:59.700 --> 00:06:00.030 Georgeann Dau: that's it.

00:06:01.380 --> 00:06:05.190 Georgeann Dau: i'm sorry Cynthia that's where the name of our show is the journey through into awareness.

00:06:05.700 --> 00:06:06.420 Cynthia James: Yes.

00:06:06.480 --> 00:06:15.090 Georgeann Dau: The first step is always awareness and i'm i'm curious, how did you know that there was something different.

00:06:15.570 --> 00:06:23.100 Georgeann Dau: I asked that because it was similar to me in my childhood and Judy also that, although there was this going on over here.

00:06:23.520 --> 00:06:33.930 Georgeann Dau: You know, we sort of had a sense of and maybe some of you can relate to this had a sense that there is a nother way to live than what we are experiencing viewing.

00:06:34.890 --> 00:06:48.660 Georgeann Dau: And perceiving because there always is, and you know as a psychoanalyst, this is what I do is I journey with people to help them get to that other side, so how did you know how did you have that sense we think it came from.

00:06:49.590 --> 00:06:54.930 Cynthia James: Well, I think there was some levels here one is I come from my high.

00:06:57.180 --> 00:07:09.240 Cynthia James: prophetic Bremer family, so I think I board visions and dreams and things I mean I always saw myself on stages, I saw always saw myself traveling.

00:07:09.480 --> 00:07:26.460 Cynthia James: And you know you know, here we are, welfare and like horrible little apartment so so that imagination didn't quite make sense, but I think that opening to a vision allows the universe to kind of sync up with you, I also believe, I was completely guided, I believe that there were angels.

00:07:26.790 --> 00:07:38.460 Cynthia James: of God, whatever you choose to call them that were ushering me through different things and helping me do things that that would take me out of the situation of my familial pattern.

00:07:38.670 --> 00:07:57.000 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely, yes, and you know even in scripture but the angel Gabriel came to the narrow and said, this is what's going to go on for you so it's no different now we have the guidance we just have to open up and believe that to really recognize that it's going on right Judy.

00:07:58.110 --> 00:08:09.690 Judi Miller: Absolutely, and you know it just it's it's a wonderful coincidence, because Cynthia I believe one of your recent videos on Facebook was about opening opening to receive and to be able to hear that guidance.

00:08:09.750 --> 00:08:10.830 Georgeann Dau: Yes, and.

00:08:10.920 --> 00:08:18.720 Cynthia James: yeah you know because I think the thing is, you can set an intention, or you can have a desire, but if you don't open the universe can't give it to you.

00:08:19.320 --> 00:08:19.980 Cynthia James: So you don't.

00:08:20.040 --> 00:08:22.680 Cynthia James: open and ask it can't you know it can't come.

00:08:22.710 --> 00:08:23.010 Georgeann Dau: In.

00:08:23.070 --> 00:08:31.440 Cynthia James: And so I think it's like getting ready to to receive the outpouring of this universe that's conspiring for you.

00:08:32.460 --> 00:08:33.180 Judi Miller: And just.

00:08:33.570 --> 00:08:51.630 Judi Miller: Just a follow up question to that because you know we have 60,000 thoughts a day and so many of us find it very difficult to hear those subtle whispers the guidance from our angels our guides our higher self, how do we quiet, the mind, so we can hear that guidance, you have any suggestions.

00:08:52.380 --> 00:08:56.160 Cynthia James: Well, the first thing I want to say is that still small voice really is still in small.

00:08:57.390 --> 00:09:07.440 Cynthia James: You can't you can't have it with either 50,000 distractions going on around you but, for me, you know meditation was one of the greatest gifts of my life.

00:09:08.370 --> 00:09:16.230 Cynthia James: And, and once I learned that it wasn't about quiet and shy and shutting down my mind that it was really about allowing the mind to still itself.

00:09:16.680 --> 00:09:32.700 Cynthia James: And I could do that through breath and you do breath work, you know I could do that to breath, I could do that through yoga I could do that through different things to music, you know, and it was really incredible because i'm a pretty hyper individual got a lot of energy.

00:09:33.000 --> 00:09:49.620 Cynthia James: it's great meditation for me allowed me to just become still and start to hear things that weren't my normal patterns, and so I would journal things and I would start to notice oh i'm being given messages here great.

00:09:50.130 --> 00:10:04.260 Judi Miller: Great and i've noticed that you know when my ego is talking to it's usually not very loving and when my higher self or those angels and guides are talking like you said it's it's usually fairly quiet and it's usually very subtle but it's also very loving.

00:10:04.560 --> 00:10:06.570 Georgeann Dau: It comes to the place of love yeah.

00:10:06.720 --> 00:10:21.300 Georgeann Dau: it's not critical right so critical yeah that's huge yeah that's great so I kind of interrupted you were added to the the the conversation, but I was really moved by, and this is why.

00:10:22.770 --> 00:10:28.260 Georgeann Dau: This is why you're so great at what you do, because you struggled and suffered a lot, and you moved through it.

00:10:29.460 --> 00:10:34.050 Georgeann Dau: I think it's really important for our audience to hear that, because I know there's people that are here with us.

00:10:34.410 --> 00:10:45.330 Georgeann Dau: tuning in that really have struggled and suffered in their childhood and you used it well, you really used it well and i'm sure you did a lot of work on yourself to move through that pain.

00:10:46.740 --> 00:10:55.380 Cynthia James: yeah you know it's really every book i've ever written it the the the unwritten text is, if I can do what you can do it.

00:10:56.640 --> 00:11:06.240 Cynthia James: Because you know really it wasn't easy you know I cried a lot I want a lot of a lot of therapy laugh a.

00:11:06.480 --> 00:11:07.260 Cynthia James: lot of stuff.

00:11:07.530 --> 00:11:24.750 Cynthia James: Smart The thing is it's like it's like I always felt like there was a light at the end of the tunnel that I didn't believe we were put here to suffer and so if we weren't put here to suffer, then what were we put here to do so, I became curious um.

00:11:24.960 --> 00:11:29.820 Judi Miller: And we'd love to hear your perspective, so what is our purpose here and why are we here.

00:11:31.860 --> 00:11:34.470 Cynthia James: Well, first of all to love.

00:11:36.060 --> 00:11:46.680 Cynthia James: But the second of all second thing is like it, we all have a purpose but it's not something you find it's something that's encoded within it's something that you come here with.

00:11:47.280 --> 00:12:06.510 Cynthia James: And I believe our job is to open and reveal it because it's going to show up by the way, different times at different times in your life, yes, but, but you, you know if you look back at your life, and when I look back at mine, I was always a teacher, I was always serving people.

00:12:06.570 --> 00:12:07.290 Cynthia James: I was.

00:12:07.350 --> 00:12:08.010 Always.

00:12:10.230 --> 00:12:16.230 Cynthia James: honoring people with with my with my gifts and inviting them to do the same.

00:12:16.530 --> 00:12:24.060 Georgeann Dau: Yes, yeah and would you say that how we can recognize those gifts would be.

00:12:25.500 --> 00:12:28.230 Georgeann Dau: What makes your heart sing inside of us.

00:12:28.650 --> 00:12:33.750 Cynthia James: Totally yeah what are you passionate about what lights you up what ignites you.

00:12:33.810 --> 00:12:41.250 Georgeann Dau: Yes, and that's how we know that that's our God given gifts that we're called to use in this life because it will make us so joyful.

00:12:41.400 --> 00:12:42.210 Cynthia James: Yes.

00:12:42.300 --> 00:12:43.620 Georgeann Dau: I like so happy.

00:12:44.250 --> 00:12:47.970 Judi Miller: And I love what you said in your book that you actually never had only one job in your life.

00:12:48.180 --> 00:12:52.740 Judi Miller: You had one job to pay the bills and then you had another job that just let you on fire.

00:12:54.180 --> 00:13:02.460 Cynthia James: I was a parallel printer and what I felt was that the job that was paying my bills, a lot of time was investing in my true passion.

00:13:02.820 --> 00:13:11.700 Cynthia James: And that and that eventually that investment would pay off so that I can do what I love and be resourced all the time, yes.

00:13:12.270 --> 00:13:21.180 Georgeann Dau: And now everything you do make sure it's saying and you're able to make a living doing it that's wonderful yes that's great.

00:13:22.500 --> 00:13:33.030 Georgeann Dau: So we're going to take a quick break and we will be back with Cynthia James and all the wonderful beautiful things that we're going to share with you tonight thanks so much for joining us we'll be right back.

00:15:54.780 --> 00:16:01.740 Georgeann Dau: Welcome back to a journey through into awareness we're here tonight Judy and myself with Cynthia James.

00:16:03.030 --> 00:16:04.590 Georgeann Dau: So yeah good.

00:16:05.280 --> 00:16:05.700 Judi Miller: George you.

00:16:05.760 --> 00:16:07.170 Georgeann Dau: know, I really would like you to go.

00:16:08.160 --> 00:16:17.730 Judi Miller: I was a Cynthia was talking now prior to the break about passions and the importance of following our passions and one of the things closely related to that is creativity.

00:16:18.120 --> 00:16:24.540 Judi Miller: And for me, we are a creative life force and when we don't express our creativity it gets stifled and it could actually.

00:16:24.780 --> 00:16:33.510 Judi Miller: get stuck in our bodies as payment sickness and I know, one of the things that is so important to you Cynthia is your creative expression you talk a little bit about that.

00:16:35.400 --> 00:16:43.770 Cynthia James: yeah you know I love that you said that we were creative forces, because you know, I believe that the universe, is a creative field.

00:16:44.160 --> 00:16:52.710 Cynthia James: And we're manifestations of that field, so we come here to create and, and so the thing is it's like for for me personally, it was like.

00:16:53.220 --> 00:17:09.030 Cynthia James: I began to notice that if I wasn't doing something creative it felt like a part of me was dying and so once I got I don't have to figure out how it's going to pay me or how i'm going to make money at it, you know.

00:17:09.180 --> 00:17:10.080 Georgeann Dau: When I went.

00:17:10.170 --> 00:17:11.400 Cynthia James: into my soul.

00:17:11.430 --> 00:17:17.310 Cynthia James: You know I would sing you know if nobody you know ever wanted to pay me.

00:17:17.940 --> 00:17:19.350 Cynthia James: You know I would write.

00:17:19.470 --> 00:17:35.670 Cynthia James: I would dance, you know because it feeds my soul and what I believe is when you step into those creative fields that feeds your soul, then the universe starts to bring in energetics and experiences that that can take you to another level, yes.

00:17:35.820 --> 00:17:48.060 Georgeann Dau: Every yes, yes I don't think any of us here or doing what we do, certainly for the money you know the dollars come out of the creative energy and our love for it.

00:17:49.860 --> 00:17:56.040 Judi Miller: And it's interesting George and I were talking not too long ago, you know my background is i'm a CPA and a finance director.

00:17:56.340 --> 00:18:07.620 Judi Miller: So, usually there's not a lot of opportunities to be creative, but we could be creative in the small things in life, about the way we dress the way we present information, the way that we communicate with people.

00:18:08.160 --> 00:18:14.610 Judi Miller: So it doesn't have to be painting or dancing or singing it could be just the little acts of life that where we can be creative.

00:18:14.880 --> 00:18:28.470 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely absolutely yes gardening our view on life can be creative just how we view, how we exchange the people, the smile, we have, we are creating every moment that we live.

00:18:29.220 --> 00:18:38.100 Georgeann Dau: And that's really it and you know, one of the things that I know that I work with my patients a lot is, we should not be comparing ourselves with anyone.

00:18:38.520 --> 00:18:50.520 Georgeann Dau: You know the way in which you know I answer the call or or Reverend Cynthia or adore Judy answers the call is individual and unique to them because God.

00:18:51.180 --> 00:19:03.900 Georgeann Dau: reaches at each of us uniquely based on who we are, I think the context that i've been hearing over and over again throughout throughout shows, and maybe you also is that it's really about being open to receive.

00:19:04.470 --> 00:19:10.260 Georgeann Dau: Whatever it is that's coming in, uniquely to you, it doesn't have to look like anybody else's.

00:19:10.740 --> 00:19:19.470 Cynthia James: yeah and the thing is is I, I guess, this is something that I learned it's like in order to do that, you have to declutter your life.

00:19:20.010 --> 00:19:20.940 Cynthia James: You have to.

00:19:21.420 --> 00:19:28.740 Cynthia James: You have to get rid of all that stuff that you're holding on to you know that you're hiding in the closet could you don't want people to know in the drawers or whatever.

00:19:29.160 --> 00:19:47.670 Cynthia James: And you have to you know you, you can make your living space, no matter what size, it is feel beautiful and nurturing and open and then the universe goes oh oh and starts to end starts to bring things in that match it.

00:19:47.910 --> 00:19:49.740 Cynthia James: And so, for me, it's like.

00:19:50.190 --> 00:19:56.430 Cynthia James: it's like create the space around you that reflects who you come here to be.

00:19:57.630 --> 00:20:07.080 Judi Miller: And since you know it's interesting, why is it so hard for people to let go to let go of relationships jobs things that they know that no longer serves them.

00:20:09.210 --> 00:20:10.890 Cynthia James: You know I tell my clients.

00:20:13.110 --> 00:20:26.430 Cynthia James: Fear immobilize is your ability to be awake, and so the fear of losing someone, even though it's someone who treats you badly there's that thing back there that says well.

00:20:26.850 --> 00:20:36.360 Cynthia James: I may never find something again I may never find love, again I may never find another job again but, but what I learned the hard way.

00:20:37.110 --> 00:20:48.960 Cynthia James: Is is that when you are doing things and pushing the envelope pushing the river, you are depleting your energy, and it is having an impact on your physiology for me, it was a dream.

00:20:49.410 --> 00:21:06.840 Cynthia James: You know, for other people's it's diabetes for other people, you know it's mental and emotional things it's like when you keep holding on to things that do not serve you, you know you have to do that with an enormous amount of energy.

00:21:08.970 --> 00:21:15.840 Georgeann Dau: And sometimes it takes that kind of energy, though, to work through the unconscious repeats.

00:21:16.320 --> 00:21:24.030 Georgeann Dau: That we bring to a relationship and choose the partner that we do I love that part that you wrote in the book about relationship.

00:21:24.540 --> 00:21:38.460 Georgeann Dau: You know, and I think that you know all of us might agree that we hear people say you know i'm going to leave this relationship and i'm going to find the one for me i'm going to find my soul mate right, and you know you're just gonna meet that part of yourself again.

00:21:39.480 --> 00:21:40.380 Cynthia James: Oh yeah I.

00:21:40.410 --> 00:21:43.890 Cynthia James: What I do is I looked at all my relationships and I went oh holy moly.

00:21:45.660 --> 00:21:46.530 Cynthia James: nominator.

00:21:48.420 --> 00:21:52.110 Georgeann Dau: Right that's I love that part of the book that was great.

00:21:52.980 --> 00:21:55.020 Judi Miller: We carry ourselves wherever we go right.

00:21:55.050 --> 00:21:56.880 Georgeann Dau: Yes, we bring it right along.

00:21:57.420 --> 00:22:04.860 Judi Miller: And I also loved what you said Cynthia about fear you know somebody I used to have this irrational fear of the dark growing up for most of my life.

00:22:05.220 --> 00:22:16.830 Judi Miller: And someone he told me bad there's nothing in the darkness, but what I put there is the same with fear there's nothing in the future to be afraid of except what I put there Oh, we put there, yes.

00:22:17.430 --> 00:22:26.280 Cynthia James: You know I want to tell you I am because of my my childhood in the the trauma and the rape and all that other stuff the dark you know.

00:22:26.760 --> 00:22:37.590 Cynthia James: Being just not the dark put being alone was a big deal, and I was coming out of a movie theater and my husband had park his car one place and I parked mine another.

00:22:37.860 --> 00:22:44.160 Cynthia James: And I started to walk down the street, and I was, like all of a sudden, I was like terrified but nothing had happened, I was just terrified.

00:22:44.520 --> 00:22:55.560 Cynthia James: And I heard this little voice state you live in a safe universe, and I was like I live in a safe universe, so I started doing that mantra inside and this person.

00:22:55.920 --> 00:23:02.640 Cynthia James: Who I can remember, who was the day that I knew came up and started talking to me said oh i'll walk with you and so.

00:23:03.120 --> 00:23:17.730 Cynthia James: The person is talking but i'm doing the mantra I am so totally not connected to them and we get to the parking structure and I go on in here and they go Oh, I am too, and I said Okay, and I walk up the stairs and they go oh i'm appear to their car was parked next to mine.

00:23:17.790 --> 00:23:18.390 Cynthia James: Oh wow.

00:23:18.450 --> 00:23:21.870 Cynthia James: And in that moment, I was like the universe was saying, I got you.

00:23:22.140 --> 00:23:34.620 Georgeann Dau: yeah you yeah and you know I mean it's it's really amazing to you and really, really to all of us, certainly three of us here because we've been on similar journeys that.

00:23:35.610 --> 00:23:53.340 Georgeann Dau: Based on what we've lived with and not really having the trust within the family, it really is a godsend and a miracle that we can now really believe believe that God has got us that the universe has really got us yes.

00:23:53.730 --> 00:24:00.420 Georgeann Dau: And as those and and there's a big journey to reach there and we can pray to God for that, because.

00:24:00.780 --> 00:24:10.020 Georgeann Dau: You know, we can hear that from people and then think that well well I can't do that I can know it, you can and that's what city is book is about you can.

00:24:10.350 --> 00:24:21.060 Georgeann Dau: And you remind yourself of that and maybe go into treatment and stay in prayer and meditate you can we all can we're all chosen to be born to be chosen.

00:24:22.680 --> 00:24:30.000 Judi Miller: And Cynthia you were talking about that inherited trauma i've always had this unexplainable terror and fear, because.

00:24:30.480 --> 00:24:48.330 Judi Miller: My mother was attacked as a child also so through epigenetics I inherited that irrational fear and, as I looked back on my life I realized that most of my life was lived from the state of fear, but when we let go of that fear all that actually remains as long that's exactly right.

00:24:48.660 --> 00:25:00.990 Cynthia James: Well, and here's the thing too it's like that's where the work comes in that's where people need the two of you that's where you do a you know because because you really.

00:25:02.220 --> 00:25:16.860 Cynthia James: You need someone to hold up the reflection to remind you that that you get to choose your destiny, you get to be the captain of your ship you get to create the life that you want and and where you came from.

00:25:17.310 --> 00:25:30.600 Cynthia James: Is is a is a roadmap that can be shifted and create a new, and so I i'm so grateful for the people, the healers and the teachers that have been with me who held me when I couldn't get up.

00:25:31.320 --> 00:25:46.440 Cynthia James: Who lifted me up who reminded me who I was I I really feel like that's why we're all here that were to to realize love bring love share love and teach others to do the same.

00:25:47.730 --> 00:26:00.420 Georgeann Dau: Beautiful well God bless all those that have the beautiful opportunity to work with you Cynthia really you're just a real beautiful treasure yeah Thank you.

00:26:01.380 --> 00:26:09.240 Judi Miller: Cynthia I know that you have the five keys to successful living as part of your coaching program would you like to share that with our listeners as well.

00:26:10.470 --> 00:26:11.010 Cynthia James: sure.

00:26:12.540 --> 00:26:12.960 Cynthia James: You know.

00:26:15.870 --> 00:26:26.520 Cynthia James: What you know I know we're going to take a break soon, but what I want to say now i'll talk about it after but, but what I want to say here is like steps help you get to healing.

00:26:27.960 --> 00:26:46.920 Cynthia James: Steps help you get to awakening steps help you open your heart and and you know oh there's another step because small steps, create huge wins and so that's that's what the five teaser about and i'm definitely going to share that when we come back I just didn't want to start in every.

00:26:46.920 --> 00:26:48.180 Georgeann Dau: fall yeah.

00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:57.810 Georgeann Dau: that's great yeah oh I love that, and you know it's interesting because many times I know some of the people I work with they see it as rungs on the ladder up.

00:26:58.200 --> 00:27:08.880 Georgeann Dau: Yes, I try to help them look at it, that it's really a spiral up and you can spiral up and you can spiral down, sometimes, but you always spiral up higher than when you come down.

00:27:09.210 --> 00:27:28.350 Georgeann Dau: Yes, because of the self judgment that we all have right it's unbelievable that what we take in his children okay we'll be right back with with Cynthia James thanks for joining us tonight i'm down to Georgia and TAO and we're here with Cynthia James and my buddy Judy know.

00:30:05.730 --> 00:30:17.130 Georgeann Dau: Okay we're back with Cynthia James author of many books, but this book I choose me and she's going to give us some more excerpts from the book Thank you yeah.

00:30:17.370 --> 00:30:22.110 Judi Miller: Before Cynthia does, I just wanted to comment on something that you sent your Jan about that spiral.

00:30:22.620 --> 00:30:35.550 Judi Miller: And I use the same metaphor about the spiral that oftentimes the same situations come around but as we evolve and as we learn, and as we grow we just take a different perspective on the same situations that might be reoccurring in our life.

00:30:35.760 --> 00:30:37.890 Georgeann Dau: Yes, I love it yes.

00:30:39.210 --> 00:30:40.680 Judi Miller: So Cynthia we're so excited.

00:30:40.980 --> 00:30:43.650 Judi Miller: To hear the five tiers of successful living.

00:30:43.980 --> 00:30:58.170 Cynthia James: yeah well I you know i'm this came from the fact that I really needed kind of my own roadmap like you know how am I going to move from the next place so so the five teeth The first one is trust.

00:30:58.830 --> 00:31:04.800 Cynthia James: That that you use tap into a place where you, first and foremost learn to trust yourself.

00:31:05.370 --> 00:31:11.040 Cynthia James: That you have everything you need within you, and if you can, if you can learn to trust that and that you have.

00:31:11.280 --> 00:31:23.610 Cynthia James: You can lean into the divine, then you will be guided in every single moment and so there's no rescuer outside of you that's necessary or even possible you get to save yourself, you get to lift yourself right.

00:31:23.940 --> 00:31:38.880 Cynthia James: And one of the ways you do that is by deepening your spiritual practice and and opening to anchoring things that feed you right because here's the thing you can trust that you're an original imprint there's nobody else, like you, anywhere on this planet.

00:31:39.240 --> 00:31:39.960 Georgeann Dau: I love that.

00:31:41.010 --> 00:31:47.730 Cynthia James: So, then, the second one is transitions you know if we don't know about transitions after the last year and a half, you know.

00:31:48.660 --> 00:31:55.470 Cynthia James: We have been asleep right so So yes, so the transitions everything is changing always you know.

00:31:56.310 --> 00:32:06.390 Cynthia James: The but The thing is, is like what you have to understand is that the project, the process of of transition is just moving from one state to another one condition to another.

00:32:06.870 --> 00:32:30.540 Cynthia James: That you know, a transition can look like a birth, the depth of marriage and divorce buying a home, a lot of different things, but you get to choose in every single moment what's best for you, and so you get to honor this this transition as a an opportunity for your growth and expansion.

00:32:32.010 --> 00:32:38.130 Cynthia James: So number three is I call it truth telling and that's the actor courage to reveal your authenticity.

00:32:38.580 --> 00:32:47.790 Cynthia James: Your profound truth, even when it scares you even when it scares other people to bring your voice your authentic voice and that's not so easy for people.

00:32:48.150 --> 00:32:54.180 Cynthia James: You know a lot of my clients are women, and they talk a lot about the fact that bringing their voices very difficult.

00:32:54.990 --> 00:32:59.610 Cynthia James: But I believe that when you're willing to tell the truth you're willing to stand in the fire right.

00:32:59.970 --> 00:33:16.290 Cynthia James: you're willing to stand in the fire and and even face those people that you know may not like what you have to say, because your truth may not be theirs right, so I ask people, why are you afraid to tell the truth, and have you thought about the fact that when you.

00:33:17.700 --> 00:33:22.200 Cynthia James: are in a position where people are withholding the truth from you how does it feel.

00:33:23.730 --> 00:33:32.130 Cynthia James: People from you, when they know you will tell the truth, and you will stand in you.

00:33:32.490 --> 00:33:38.190 Cynthia James: amen so number four there I call it, I call it training right it's like.

00:33:38.670 --> 00:33:50.430 Cynthia James: Up level your skills, if you want to be a writer, you know work on writing if you want to be a singer take a class if you when I did my Ted talk I hired a coach because I was like i've been speaking a long time, but I wanted to make sure it was like.

00:33:50.670 --> 00:33:58.740 Cynthia James: I felt like it was a slam dunk so up level your skills, you know don't be stuck in thinking you've arrived, because there is no arrival.

00:33:59.220 --> 00:34:07.800 Cynthia James: You lean into your creativity and then you you continue to ask for the best of you to come forward and you get that through skills.

00:34:08.760 --> 00:34:24.000 Cynthia James: And then number five is tenacity, you know persistence creates boldness and determination and once you set an intention, you have to follow it up with commitment and perseverance tenacity.

00:34:24.690 --> 00:34:27.120 Cynthia James: So, the more you practice, the better you get.

00:34:27.660 --> 00:34:37.350 Cynthia James: Successful people don't believe in failure, they know that they can fall down they know they can hear the wall, they can know that something doesn't work.

00:34:37.620 --> 00:34:49.710 Cynthia James: But they also know that they cannot fail because they are following that passion that thing that lights us up so success takes you know many one steps at a time and so.

00:34:50.580 --> 00:35:02.820 Cynthia James: If you've got a dream if you've got something that's a burning desire within you there is a delivery system just stay focused and stay on the path.

00:35:05.130 --> 00:35:05.910 Judi Miller: I love that.

00:35:07.530 --> 00:35:09.300 Georgeann Dau: love that don't you love that.

00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:19.440 Georgeann Dau: that's great that's great because it's true you can feel it in your Center in your heart because it's true yeah.

00:35:19.800 --> 00:35:20.850 Georgeann Dau: Thank you.

00:35:21.390 --> 00:35:36.330 Judi Miller: it's so important to learn and to grow, as you mentioned Cynthia but one of the things that I really resonate with your work is that we're already born worthy there's actually we're not broken and one of the things that you teach is that there is nothing to fix.

00:35:37.830 --> 00:35:39.240 Cynthia James: yeah you know.

00:35:39.810 --> 00:35:42.480 Georgeann Dau: that's right there's nothing to fix there's nothing wrong.

00:35:43.410 --> 00:35:52.710 Cynthia James: You had you remember that movie good will hunting when Robin Williams told matt damon that that anything wrong with him, you know if I thought that was so profound it's like.

00:35:54.390 --> 00:36:04.650 Cynthia James: How could God be love, how could that energy breathes life into you as something broken that makes no sense to me.

00:36:05.910 --> 00:36:10.080 Georgeann Dau: Right well you know I mean we we are born into dysfunction.

00:36:10.410 --> 00:36:10.620 Cynthia James: You know.

00:36:12.090 --> 00:36:28.170 Georgeann Dau: that's where I think people feel broken by what went on for them up in their upbringing, they were made to feel broken, you know more important than what the child lives through is how they were made to feel in the Center of what they live through.

00:36:28.650 --> 00:36:33.300 Georgeann Dau: Right right and that's what makes a person grow up to feel broken.

00:36:33.780 --> 00:36:38.790 Georgeann Dau: And what i'm hearing you talk about which I know I think we're all in agreement with because it's.

00:36:38.790 --> 00:36:50.790 Georgeann Dau: True, is that in order for us to do everything that that you're talking about is that we have to face, where we are in authentic where we built up this full self.

00:36:51.210 --> 00:36:59.040 Georgeann Dau: You know what went on the messages we receive the way we feel about ourselves that's where the pain is is that we have to look at that.

00:36:59.520 --> 00:37:16.260 Georgeann Dau: And face it, so that we died with it sheds and then there's a new canvas this transformation this Transfiguration right we die to the cross we died or false self and we take on the likeness we transform.

00:37:16.830 --> 00:37:28.710 Georgeann Dau: There can't be any transformation if we're still like you're talking about holding on to the false self holding on so tight to that which we don't want to look at her face there's no growth right.

00:37:28.890 --> 00:37:37.440 Cynthia James: And I think that that that you, you do that, in tandem with moving towards the vision that.

00:37:37.470 --> 00:37:37.950 Cynthia James: That.

00:37:38.250 --> 00:37:42.450 Cynthia James: is pulling view you know I think I think they run a tandem, because I think I think.

00:37:42.990 --> 00:37:52.530 Cynthia James: The fact that I knew what I wanted to do and how I didn't know how to get there, but I what I wanted to do and I had you know, a couple of therapists that were like.

00:37:53.100 --> 00:38:01.380 Cynthia James: Okay let's just move this out of the way let's just move that out of the way this is that, out of the way, so you can get to this.

00:38:02.910 --> 00:38:05.880 Georgeann Dau: And as you're going to it's this it's being moved out of the way.

00:38:06.420 --> 00:38:07.590 Cynthia James: that's right exactly.

00:38:07.830 --> 00:38:26.130 Georgeann Dau: Yes, I remember when I was studying with the nuns I remember sister Barbara came to me because I was going through a place of being stuck and she said to me very, very sincerely and very calmly god's deepest desire for you is your deepest desire follow that flame.

00:38:29.280 --> 00:38:38.850 Georgeann Dau: And i'll never forget that laid on me this many years ago, but they don't me like yes that's what it was like somebody put a flame under my butt.

00:38:40.440 --> 00:38:41.760 Georgeann Dau: burn in there, anyway, so.

00:38:43.260 --> 00:38:53.850 Georgeann Dau: You Cindy I think we have this in common, I we I think we all sort of idle at like you know 600 rpm you know lots of God given energy.

00:38:55.860 --> 00:38:59.460 Judi Miller: And I love the same where we were actually god's hands.

00:39:00.090 --> 00:39:06.270 Georgeann Dau: yeah yes yeah and mind or yeah.

00:39:06.390 --> 00:39:27.330 Cynthia James: yeah spirit use it we're the conduits to which spirit reveals itself, and so, for me, that's like a big honor that's like a tremendous gift that that that we get to be on this planet, at this time as a vessel of love and light I just think that that is such a gift.

00:39:28.320 --> 00:39:36.210 Judi Miller: And since we're talking about different quotes the other quote, that I love and again I apologize I don't remember where i've heard these, but our ceiling is god's floor.

00:39:37.050 --> 00:39:37.770 Georgeann Dau: say it again.

00:39:38.460 --> 00:39:40.890 Judi Miller: Our our ceiling is god's floor.

00:39:41.430 --> 00:39:45.060 Georgeann Dau: Oh beautiful I love that i've never heard that before.

00:39:46.770 --> 00:39:59.490 Judi Miller: So Cynthia as George and mentioned one of the things that I do is energy work i'm an energy coach energy codes coach and one of the things that I love that you say in your book as well, is that the body is actually the key.

00:40:00.240 --> 00:40:09.900 Cynthia James: Yes, yeah so we live in a culture that is really good at teaching us how to use the mind.

00:40:11.520 --> 00:40:31.020 Cynthia James: But, but the body everything that ever happened to us is encoded in it, along with the with the historical life thing, and so, when you start to understand that and understand that the body has a language, and you can learn that language healing can happen in such a rapid fashion.

00:40:32.490 --> 00:40:35.820 Georgeann Dau: I love that you had mentioned before, with the drill your adrenal.

00:40:37.260 --> 00:40:43.650 Georgeann Dau: And I was thinking because i'm a naturopath I was thinking, I wonder what went on for her you had adrenal stress.

00:40:44.490 --> 00:40:52.890 Cynthia James: Oh well, i'm glad he was just basically shutting me down, and I was just pushing through with the ever ready bunny and me was going Oh, I can do that.

00:40:53.040 --> 00:40:54.240 Cynthia James: Oh, I could do that I.

00:40:55.080 --> 00:40:57.030 Cynthia James: Am I going to go to sit down.

00:40:57.150 --> 00:41:11.160 Cynthia James: You better sit down into Finally, my husband said, you have got to go find out why you're so tired and the doctor said, you see this number here and i'm like yeah he said you're headed towards addison's disease, I was like what does that mean adrenal failure.

00:41:11.520 --> 00:41:25.260 Cynthia James: I don't know what do we do about that, and he said quit your job he said it's killing me I was like I can't quit my job he said when we better find some way to shift this around because you are pushing your body past its limits.

00:41:25.860 --> 00:41:27.270 Georgeann Dau: Well, thank you for listening.

00:41:33.630 --> 00:41:41.160 Judi Miller: Simply I one of the things also is you say movement is medicine, and I believe that recently you lost quite a bit of weight.

00:41:41.970 --> 00:42:03.480 Cynthia James: yeah i'm about little over 30 pounds, the women in my family were all left the planet planet overweight ill depressed and with some form of disease and at one point I looked at myself, and I was like oh my gosh I have become the women in my family.

00:42:04.530 --> 00:42:19.860 Cynthia James: And I was like i've got to do something about it so when the adrenal thing happened, I mean, I think it was really a gift because I had to take a three month sabbatical to like get myself back together, and so I I look at.

00:42:20.580 --> 00:42:30.210 Cynthia James: How I ate stress I looked at how I would push my body, you know when you push your body to a certain level, then, then you do things where it doesn't function to support you so.

00:42:30.630 --> 00:42:41.580 Cynthia James: I I went to the gym I hired a trainer I worked out three times a week with that trainer and then I would walk and do other stuff I cleaned out everything my husband I cleaned out all our cabinets.

00:42:43.110 --> 00:42:55.110 Cynthia James: And I changed my diet you because I said, if I don't do this now I I can't be the in the vessel to do the things i've come here to do.

00:42:55.500 --> 00:43:05.340 Georgeann Dau: Beautiful wonderful well all these great great things to hearing tonight Oh, my goodness, they sound so corny jonah i'm just feeling like.

00:43:06.540 --> 00:43:10.320 Georgeann Dau: What can I say I am going that way we'll be right back.

00:43:11.400 --> 00:43:16.770 Georgeann Dau: To the journey through into awareness with Cynthia James, thank you for joining us tonight.

00:45:54.810 --> 00:46:06.030 Georgeann Dau: Welcome back to a journey through into awareness, I think it's a great segue Cynthia if you don't mind i'm to talk about your radical self care.

00:46:07.470 --> 00:46:24.600 Cynthia James: yeah I mean actually you know that whole sabbatical time was really a time where I had to really look at radical self care, you know, one of the reasons I wrote the book I choose me was that that women had been acculturated we were still property, thank you for holding the book.

00:46:26.880 --> 00:46:34.110 Cynthia James: No, we weren't culture we were so property to the early 1900s and are we were told our job was to take care of others first.

00:46:34.380 --> 00:46:43.200 Cynthia James: Take care of the family take care of the children, you know, and so it became a part of our whole thing, even as things changed and in culture and the way in which we were showing up.

00:46:43.590 --> 00:46:58.560 Cynthia James: it's still put others first take care of others first and the thing about it is it's like I believe that a lie was told it was told that that that we make everything better by taking care of everyone first.

00:46:59.070 --> 00:47:12.810 Cynthia James: But I believe we make everything better by taking care of us first we raised see the energy level, the ability to shine and to share our gifts and so radical self care is.

00:47:13.140 --> 00:47:24.660 Cynthia James: What do I need to feel vital but do I need to feel healthy, what do I need to feel strong and awake and clear and expansive because when i'm fully operational there I get to bring it everywhere.

00:47:25.980 --> 00:47:35.250 Georgeann Dau: Absolutely, and you know so much when people do not give themselves to scare, I think that you know you hit it on the head that we were brought up to.

00:47:35.700 --> 00:47:45.900 Georgeann Dau: think that we need to care for everyone, and certainly you know, for me it was me caring for my mother and holding her emotions, but so many times we forget that.

00:47:46.800 --> 00:47:56.040 Georgeann Dau: What we're doing is just leaving ourselves out of the equation, we can still take care of others and be there for them, but put ourselves in the equation as well.

00:47:56.490 --> 00:48:04.140 Georgeann Dau: Somehow we will talk to that we don't count on some level that we should you know it's not about bringing ourselves in.

00:48:04.950 --> 00:48:05.880 Georgeann Dau: I don't get it right.

00:48:05.940 --> 00:48:13.830 Judi Miller: And I think it's so important, when we love ourselves more and take care of ourselves more we actually have more to give to others, yes, yes.

00:48:14.040 --> 00:48:19.950 Cynthia James: Yes, well, I just think if everybody was operating from that place.

00:48:21.030 --> 00:48:27.180 Cynthia James: What would be going on, you know I mean we could we could have stock.

00:48:30.570 --> 00:48:49.260 Cynthia James: or viper and the more vital the collective is the the the stronger we become and our immune systems in every aspect of becomes, and so I think, taking care of your surf self First is the greatest gift, you can give anyone anywhere absolutely.

00:48:49.440 --> 00:48:54.120 Judi Miller: And George and you know we're always having so much fun, the time just disappears it's amazing.

00:48:54.570 --> 00:49:06.870 Judi Miller: So Cynthia Cynthia we are starting to come to the close of the show, but one of the things that I absolutely love and find so powerful powerful is your weekly Monday Community prayer circle so for our audience.

00:49:07.320 --> 00:49:14.490 Judi Miller: to share how people can get in touch with you get your book work with you what your Community PR circles all about in your podcasts as well.

00:49:15.180 --> 00:49:23.250 Cynthia James: Oh absolutely so the Community pro circle is every Monday Monday at 830 mountain and it's on my Facebook.

00:49:23.970 --> 00:49:29.370 Cynthia James: Cynthia James transforms page and everybody comes in, from all over and.

00:49:30.060 --> 00:49:38.070 Cynthia James: I talked a little bit, and then I play music and we pray we put in our prayers we come back all week and pray for each other, I mean it's just really such a gift.

00:49:38.880 --> 00:49:52.560 Cynthia James: For me, to be with everybody that way also, I have a podcast called women awakening you know we're on iTunes and I heart and spotify and YouTube you can subscribe i'm I interview amazing women, just like you.

00:49:53.250 --> 00:50:05.310 Cynthia James: Who are change makers on the planet who are telling us you know ordinary can be extraordinary simply by saying yes, so I love that my website is Cynthia james.net.

00:50:06.180 --> 00:50:12.720 Cynthia James: My my book is I choose me the art of being a phenomenally successful woman at home and at work and my books are on Amazon and.

00:50:12.990 --> 00:50:21.720 Cynthia James: Also, my meditations and everything are on my website, and I would love to play with you, you know come and sign up for my newsletter and I send out something one month.

00:50:22.680 --> 00:50:23.250 Georgeann Dau: would love that.

00:50:23.490 --> 00:50:28.320 Judi Miller: And Cynthia one of your books is called one of your books as a children's book and.

00:50:28.950 --> 00:50:29.970 Cynthia James: You are loved.

00:50:30.360 --> 00:50:35.610 Judi Miller: Right and we were talking about that, why is it so important for children to know that they are loved.

00:50:35.880 --> 00:50:42.570 Cynthia James: Oh Oh, you know why because they know it in their souls.

00:50:43.170 --> 00:50:52.020 Cynthia James: They bought us to remind them allows them to to fully activate that divine spark so that they can do what.

00:50:52.020 --> 00:50:53.310 Georgeann Dau: They were doing.

00:50:54.000 --> 00:51:10.560 Cynthia James: So no I mean just the word love and telling a child that they're loved you something happens their faces light up there being liked up just like us, we we want to know that we're love absolutely.

00:51:11.160 --> 00:51:14.070 Georgeann Dau: And, and to show them that they're loved.

00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:23.850 Georgeann Dau: Yes, you know so many have brought up with confusing messages that I love you I love you, but then the next day they're hit.

00:51:25.770 --> 00:51:32.940 Georgeann Dau: me know so yeah it's so important entry uterus age seven that's our whole blueprint.

00:51:33.990 --> 00:51:34.560 Cynthia James: that's right.

00:51:34.920 --> 00:51:46.290 Georgeann Dau: Then, then we can change that we can change that through awareness and all the things we were looking at tonight's beautiful so important, so wonderful that we're in this that we're living in this time.

00:51:47.580 --> 00:51:48.270 Cynthia James: Yes.

00:51:48.420 --> 00:52:08.970 Georgeann Dau: we're living on time and god's using us in this time right to help others and ourselves in this planetary planetary search think of our parents, you know, by the way, I need to say something said the, if I may, I hope you don't think it's odd my patent my history comes from Europe.

00:52:11.250 --> 00:52:13.800 Georgeann Dau: And i'm Italian, German and French.

00:52:15.210 --> 00:52:21.750 Georgeann Dau: So, none of my ancestors were plantation owners, but I want to apologize for all.

00:52:22.860 --> 00:52:31.770 Georgeann Dau: I want to apologize to everyone, for whatever was done by the white race two people have a different.

00:52:33.090 --> 00:52:33.660 Georgeann Dau: color.

00:52:34.890 --> 00:52:35.580 Georgeann Dau: belief.

00:52:37.350 --> 00:52:41.130 Georgeann Dau: I can't even watch what think about what was done to.

00:52:42.870 --> 00:52:58.830 Georgeann Dau: To the slaves that came near on that ship I can't even think about it, it makes me cry it's just dreadful so for whatever it's worth I apologize, as the white race to to you, and everyone it's just terrible what was done.

00:53:00.510 --> 00:53:16.620 Cynthia James: Oh darling I thank you, you know this is this is like there was no way I could think that this was odd because here's the deal, it was just an acknowledgement of what was and and the desire for it to be different.

00:53:16.770 --> 00:53:18.450 Georgeann Dau: And really across the board.

00:53:19.080 --> 00:53:19.590 Cynthia James: And I.

00:53:19.620 --> 00:53:23.490 Cynthia James: think we can all do, that we can change.

00:53:24.750 --> 00:53:28.080 Georgeann Dau: That so go that's our work that's our life.

00:53:29.760 --> 00:53:34.080 Judi Miller: And you know when we see everything, so the eyes of love there really is no separation.

00:53:34.260 --> 00:53:44.820 Georgeann Dau: No, there isn't there isn't but you know it's all well i'm not going to get into it now, but it's we don't have the time so anyway um.

00:53:45.300 --> 00:54:05.760 Georgeann Dau: We have three minutes before we end for today, so thank you Cynthia very, very much for everything you brought is there a if there was one thing that you would ask the listeners to might take away with them in this couple of moments, we have left before we pray what would that be Cynthia.

00:54:07.500 --> 00:54:09.150 Cynthia James: You are a masterpiece.

00:54:10.170 --> 00:54:25.170 Cynthia James: You are an original imprint you are here to do something, no one else can do you can trust that you can lean into it so dare to be brave dare to step out and be bold, we need to.

00:54:26.610 --> 00:54:28.770 Georgeann Dau: Even uniform that is so beautiful.

00:54:29.190 --> 00:54:33.030 Judi Miller: And all your words of wisdom sharing with all of our listeners Thank you so much Center.

00:54:33.240 --> 00:54:38.730 Georgeann Dau: really appreciate it all today Cynthia could we end in prayer would you say the prayer tonight.

00:54:39.030 --> 00:54:39.780 Cynthia James: Oh, I would love to.

00:54:40.380 --> 00:54:49.920 Cynthia James: Thank you, so we just take this moment to step into the field of divine intelligence, whatever we choose to call it.

00:54:51.030 --> 00:54:54.270 Cynthia James: Because for now is like there's a lot.

00:54:56.370 --> 00:55:04.290 Cynthia James: One spirit one universe, and we are all manifestations of that universe that spirit that field of possibility and potential ality.

00:55:04.560 --> 00:55:16.860 Cynthia James: So in this moment I am speaking this word for everyone listening here i'm speaking this word for the planet i'm speaking this word for humanity i'm speaking this word for the waterworld at animal world the the the.

00:55:17.550 --> 00:55:23.970 Cynthia James: The people around this planet who in this moment may not know that they're loved held and supported.

00:55:24.300 --> 00:55:32.160 Cynthia James: we're lifting up Afghanistan we're lifting up Haiti we're lifting up every leader in this world, to remind them that this is a moment of awakening.

00:55:32.460 --> 00:55:38.220 Cynthia James: And so I am grateful to speak this word, because what I know is that we are interconnected.

00:55:38.580 --> 00:55:47.790 Cynthia James: Where two or more gathered there's great power so even as i'm speaking this word and others are hearing it, we are sending out the vibration of love, so I am so grateful for it.

00:55:48.090 --> 00:56:03.300 Cynthia James: i'm so grateful to be together i'm so grateful that we walk this planet, together, because we are here by divine appointment and so from this place, I let go and I trust this entire process called life and allow it to be insane, so it is man.

00:56:03.780 --> 00:56:05.640 Judi Miller: amen amen thank.

00:56:06.150 --> 00:56:11.010 Georgeann Dau: You Thank you so everyone, we hope that this show.

00:56:12.060 --> 00:56:23.790 Georgeann Dau: touched you how could it not have and we hope that you'll join us next week, we have a very interesting show where you will meet a man from a tiny little village in Greece.

00:56:24.540 --> 00:56:38.430 Georgeann Dau: One truck a week came to that village, bringing the goods that the people in the area would come and buy from his father's store, or we to then find it war torn Greece.

00:56:39.450 --> 00:56:42.660 Georgeann Dau: And you will meet through him Frank Sinatra.

00:56:44.220 --> 00:57:04.950 Georgeann Dau: Stein them and a bunch of others that he met through his journey here to this country at the age of 15 so we hope that you'll join us next week and we want to thank you again for joining us tonight Cynthia Thank you again good night and God love you always amen good night good night.

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